Deviant Behavior: Curb Your Enthusiasm

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Jared Guzman Deviant Behavior You find yourself in a car with three people. You're in the backseat of the car. The front-seat passenger gets out leaving. Traditionally you move from the back to the front amid the commotion. But suppose you didn't? Why is it normal for someone to move to the front? The inspiration for my norm violation came from Curb Your Enthusiasm, with Larry David on HBO (a television show that basically defines, or re-defines, what a norm violation is). Knowing of this particular episode, I was not sure if I could violate the norm because the situation had to be perfect and hard to arrange. Fortunately, I had my friend set up this experiment with me and an unknowing test subject who we can refer to as “Hoke” the driver (Inspiration from the movie Driving Miss Daisy). Now Hoke and I have only met once before barely making us acquaintances. The experiment shows us what’s expected in…show more content…
The social norm got a hold of Hoke and in the end I ceased to move. Hoke was put in this situation and acted just the way society expected him to. Even though I could tell he was bothered by my actions he still drove me home with the conversation kept to a minimum and the radio was left to fill the empty space of the awkwardness. During the experiment I felt as if I was being annoying and troublesome to Hoke, ultimately leaving me wondering if following social norms makes it easier on everyone. Why is this an uncomfortable situation? From the perspective of the driver, it may show a lack of respect; his car is neither a taxi nor is the passenger some sort of VIP. Maybe it is politeness that causes the passenger to sit in the front seat, to avoid making the driver feel uncomfortable. But why go through all the movement of getting in the front seat? Why can’t I stay where I am the most comfortable? What social force is making the passenger move to oblige with the

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