Assertive Style of Communication

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When I was younger, in my high school days, I believe I communicate with others the aggressive style, but being more mature and maybe part of growing up I understand myself better, my surroundings and other people I am quite sure that I developed the assertive style of approach when communicating with others. When speaking of interacting with people I can say that I am very open, aware of their behavior and playful, in a way that I tease, exchange jokes and make them comfortable with my presence or speaking to me. During group activities, when we are to share our own opinion I do listen and share my own thoughts, and when you need to disagree with someone’s opinion, tell them nicely and properly. You should be able to share your point of views honestly and do not pretend to agree on something you can’t accept. Also, in being with a team, you should know how to listen and act honestly towards them. Listening I is a very important aspect if you want to have a good relationship with others. Make them feel that what they are saying is understood, acknowledge and respected so that in a way when you are to speak, people will do the same. It is essential to a good relationship with your team, this will make you and your team be more open and trust with each other, comfortable and honest. This will help you express yourself honestly and a deeper understanding is formed between you and your team. Also, when expressing annoyance or criticism, I comment on that person’s behavior rather than attacking the person. You should remain calm and just when dealing with this kind of matter. I am also the type to stand for myself, not allowing other’s to take advantage of you and to insist on being treated fairly. Likewise, maintain eye contact and use body language to emphasize your words, it is to make someone or the person you are talking to take your words seriously and
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