These aspects play a role in how a person deals with life and different situations that they may go through. Being bullied and abused as a child is something that can change your life. People do not pay attention to those actions that are taking place until something happens. When a child is abused sometimes they also exhibit severe behavioral issues. These aspects play a role in how a person deals with life and different situations that they may go through.
They may experience sadness and believe that they will never have a real or whole family again. To them, “normal life”, is a thing of the past and they are often unable to see any positive outcomes from the chaos in their life caused by their parents. If sadness of this nature is not addressed properly and is sustained for too long it can develop in to stress and/or depression. Anger can also occur if the child doesn’t fully understand or agree with the circumstances of a divorce, leading them to resentment often times causing them to act out. Being put under a lot of pressure to behave as if nothing is wrong is not fun and can cause children to avoid facing the problem by distracting themselves all in an effort to ignore the issue.
When people say that divorce is one of the most difficult realities for children, I agree with them, as I was one of such kids. But still, I think that it is not reasonable to continue relationships with a person whom you don’t love anymore, or even hate only because of kids. To my mind, the effect of such relationships will be even worse, and I will try to explain why. It is clear that children perceive the world in a way that differs from adults’ one. They know what they want and when they don’t get it, they cry, or scream, or express their emotions in another way.
A few of these negative effects of bullying is how the person starts to feel about themselves and perceives their own self image. The individual’s social life will be affected and sometimes depending on how much they have been bullied their social life completely disappears. Other negative effects off of bullying cause a person to feel unwanted by people and shows how society is doing very little to help them. There is almost always mental damage caused when a person has been bullied. They keep their emotions suppressed and show lack of interest in most things.
Fear of confrontation with resourceful parents overwhelms their desire of alerting child neglect. As a result children may continue to live in negligent despite public knowledge. Children with disabilities have in general a larger risk of being abused (predators seek out the weakest). Knowing this, both families and teachers have a very low threshold for alerting Child welfare. The situation may improve if the issue of children’s welfare were put on the agenda, in media as well as in school.
The child could also feel a sad disappointed feeling because their parent won’t give them the attention a child should be receiving or a child could just be being neglected all together possibly by the parent just not caring, but I will tell you all about these things in my paragraphs below. First, Physical abuse: where a parent physically hits the child. The child will have unexplained burns, bites, bruises, broken bones, or black eyes. Also if the child screams and fusses that they don’t want to go or when the time comes to go home. A child could also feel as if any adult that approaches then could be harm to them.
This aggression could bring on temper tantrums, and urges of anger making it difficult for the parent who is taking the child to a public place. These actions draw a lot of negative attention while out in public. Bullying is one other behavior brought on by aggression causing your child to be suspended or even expelled from school. “Children don't learn peaceful ways of solving conflict when they are exposed to violence. "(Mann, 2010) Antisocial behavior is also at the top of the list of behaviors caused by
In addition social intimidation can lead to fear among children. They fear seeing the bully and getting picked on, or in a more serious case physically abused. Some children are even intimidated into secrecy. They may also keep quite because they feel embarrassed that they allowed this to happen to them. They may fear that their parents will either criticize them or that their parents will intervene and just make the situation worse.
However short-term effects of bullying for the victim may make them feel angry which can develop inside and cause a depression state of mind. Victims can feel scared/frightened of perhaps walking down where the bullying occurs. Victims avoid going to school simply because of the constant daily bullying or threats. This on the other hand can lead for the pupil to achieve low marks not doing well academically at
Many councils in England are catastrophically incompetent at running children's services. They are so overwhelmed with work they resist doing anything difficult or inconvenient. Fateful moments to intervene effectively with dysfunctional families are being missed, sometimes with tragic consequences which I detail below. In the family justice system poor social work practice prior to a case coming to court is the real reason for a loss of confidence in Family Courts - inconsistency in decision-making gives the impression that the wrong children are being taken into care. At the root of these problems is a failure of children's services to act lawfully because of a lack of knowledge of the Children Act 1989.