My Big Fat Greek Wedding

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Identity is what makes you, you. In My Big Fat Greek Wedding Toula is a 30 year old Greek woman who changes from a girl who is socially excluded to a confident & much more social person. Both her family & relatives have to change their views of ‘non-Greeks’ especially her father, Gus who strongly believes that “there are only two types of people in the world, Greeks & people that wish they are Greeks”. Toula thought that she was different from all the beautiful blonde girls because of her identity, of being a Greek with brown hair. To her, she was just a “six year old with sideburns” who didn’t eat ‘normal’ food such as sandwiches. Instead of going to brownies like the ‘non-Greeks’ Toula was sent to Greek school where she learnt things like “if a girl has sheep & a boy has nine. How soon will they get married?”. Now at the age of 30 Toula works as a seating hostess at Dancing Zorbas (her parent’s restaurant) wearing dull, bagging clothing, no makeup & large glasses. This reflects Toula’s general state of mind & her dissatisfaction with herself & her life. Toula soon changes her identity by realising that she wants to do more in her life than being a seating hostess. She gains permission to take a computer course at a nearby collage. Whist taking the course Toula gets self conscious starts to change her appearance by wearing contacts, curling her hair and wearing clothes much more suitable for her age. Instead of excluding herself like when she was a primary schooler Toula makes herself accepted by sitting with the blonde girls and even eating her own sandwiches! Her happy facial expression and general excitement at this point strongly contrasts her emotions earlier in the film. Toula’s identity totally changes when she starts dating Ian Miller (an Anglo-Saxon) after meeting him at mount Olympus Travel Agency. On a date Toula nearly breaks up with Ian by

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