My Big Fat Greek Wedding Essay Assignment

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My Big Fat Greek Wedding Essay Assignment The movie “My Big Fat Greek Wedding” is mainly about the cultural differences between two families. It really makes you think about how other cultures view your own. You may think your culture is “normal” but if another group of people from another culture view yours, they may think you have one messed up family. In the movie I noticed a lot of ethnocentrism; mainly by Gus, Toula’s father. He didn’t want Toula to marry a non-Greek, and he quoted, “There are two kinds of people in the world… Greeks and people who wish they were Greeks”. Toula was probably the most accepting of other cultures in her family probably because she didn’t want to be like the typical Greek woman. She wanted to get a better education and do something with her life. But, towards the ending of the movie I was glad to see that Gus became more accepting of other cultures and not just Greeks. In the movie; Toula learned her culture through enculturation. Her family embraced their cultural background and weren’t afraid to show that they loved their culture and where they came from (I mean… just look at their front yard). Ian, on the other hand, didn’t really show his what kind of culture he grew up in. His parent seemed very conservative and not very religious; since they were going to get reservations at the country club instead of the church. I also thought they seemed very simple and plain, they didn’t really show much emotion unless they were drunk. But since Ian didn’t really have a specific culture, he learned Toula’s culture through acculturation (mainly for Toula’s family’s acceptance). He showed Toula’s family he would do anything to get their approval so he got baptized in the Greek Orthodox Church in order to become “Greek” since that was such a huge issue to Toula’s father and the rest of the family. Toula’s family and Ian’s
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