Love Has No Single Definition

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27 August 2012 Love has No Single Definition Mel McGinnis, character of Raymond Carver’s “What We Talk About When We Talk About Love”, gives insights about love throughout the story. Being a cardiologist and even having five years of experience in seminary school, one’s first impression is that he is knowledgeable on the various aspects of love. As a cardiologist, he understand the intricate parts a human heart. As a former seminarian, he comprehends the emotional essence and need of a human being. Raymond Carver though lets Mel unable to completely understand ‘real’ love. He portrays how love is truly ambiguous. Through the character, Mel McGinnis, “What We Talk About When We Talk About Love” reveals love cannot be concretely defined but it is abstract. The plot of the short story revolves around the conversation of four friends on the topic about love. Mel McGinnis does most of the talking throughout the entire conversation. He is able to give two yet separate explications on love. “Mel thought real love was nothing less than spiritual love” (par. 3). At the beginning of the plot, Mel initially states love as something only found in religion. Here, the author reveals that Mel believes that love is abstract and beyond the physical realm. Having five years of experience in seminary school, he believes love to truly exist when dealing with a divine being. This shows that a human incapable of experiencing love in its most true form. Despite this fact, as the conversation between the four friends develops, Mel redefines love. “Physical love, that impulse that drives you to someone special, as well as love of the other person’s being, his or her essence, as it were. Carnal love and, well, call it sentimental love, the day-to-day caring about the other person” (par. 57). Contradictory to his earlier statement, he interprets love as a physical attraction between a man

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