So Do I believe love conquers all? Hmmm….Let’s see. When people think they “love” each other, they are spending a lot of time together, hormone endorphin support them in a positive mood of mind that helps people conquer with some of the difficulties. Peoples who are believed in love and have this feeling for someone else can say “Love conquers all”. But, I have on a scientific point of view about
Though these two emotions are complete opposites, they are also related. Love is an easy emotion to identify. You can see it everyday between couples, families, friends and religion. Having love in your life means that people are always there to support you or catch you when you fall. If you are someone conveying love towards others, you will be easy to become friends as well.
I really like this quote because it is true for most people. It is an easy to understand quote for many and they can easily relate to it, mainly because this book is all about hard work and dedication. “Weeping may endureth for a night, but joy comethin the morning.” – Psamls 30, they put this verse at the end of chapter 5. I feel like for believers, it is comforting to know that today may not be going as planned, but tomorrow is a new day and a new chance to change the things that do not make you happy. We should always remember that our happiness is in our own
This type of love tends to occur in those with low self-esteem and those who gain confidence in pleasing their love interest. Mania and agape love are similar in that they both have the ability to develop into a very intense and unhealthy relationship for both parties. In both instances the parties involved have the ability to lose their sense of reality. The styles of love that have been most prevalent in my life are logical love called pragma, and friendship love called storge or philia. A love that develops from a friendship usually prevents a lot of disappointments because you already know a lot about that person.
Attachment Styles and Relationships Marcia Henderson Psy/220 April 05, 2013 Tricia Henderson Part One: Robert Sternberg's triangular theory of love focuses on three dimensions of love; passion, intimacy and commitment. Intimacy is a dimension of love that pertains to mutual understanding, warm affection, and reciprocal concerns for the other's welfare. Another dimension of love is passion, which can be cause by strong emotions, excitement and physiological arousal, often associated with sexual desire and attraction. Passion can cause strong feelings of love and it can actually be so strong that the presence of the feeling can become a sense of love towards a person without needing anything else,
This shows his desire for love to be whole so he may totally embrace it. All of this supports the theory that Orsino is “in love with love” because love is the sole theme of his thoughts, speech and actions. However, there is another side to the interpretation. That is that to be ‘in love’ is precisely that one is ‘in love”. It could be said that Orsino is so in love with Olivia that he has completely embraced love as a being and he dwells upon it because it’s the bond he feels towards her.
We are more likely to form a relationship with those people who are associated with pleasant event e.g. we are more likely to like someone when we are in a happy mood opposed to unhappy. Support for this theory comes from Griffitt and Guay, they found that higher ratings were given when the experimenter had positively evaluated the participants, thus showing the importance of positive stimuli in relationship formation. Although, the reward / need satisfaction theory doesn’t take into account cultural and gender differences in the formation of romantic relationships. Lott suggests that in many cultures are more focused on the needs of others rather than receiving reinforcement.
I like the friendship between Miles and Phelps because they get closer as the book goes on. I also liked the relationship that Miles and Angie have and how it explains that she used to be his babysitter before he had a crush on her. The fact that Miles’s parents get a divorce and separate during the book is realistic because that happens right now in modern times. What is very memorable about Miles is that he is so smart and friendly to people, even to the Elusions. I think that with the title “The Highest Tide”, and the fact that Florence gave the prediction of the highest tide; it’s predictable.
Now we allow our friendships to be influenced by our activities, or by the events we surround ourselves with. It is your choice who your friends are, your choice to have a multitude of close friends or just one special person. The era of feel good, the sixties allowed people to believe they were friends with everyone, it was a very relaxed time period. The feelings of love and peace affected most everyone. The nineties gave way to a different perception and that people believed it was ok and the norm of the day to be single to have close friends.
Needless to say, I am in full agreement that self-disclosure in a marriage is a vital part of a successful and happy marriage. It is as the old cliché states “to know one another is to love one another.” I now understand how people fall in love with their spouse all over again. They re-connect and re-learn all about that person. Schoenberg states that men prefer gestures of affirmations rather than verbal like women do, but I have found that I like the gestures as well as he does, It provides comfort and solice. It is stated that not all people fit into the generalization of the study of self-disclosure, but I find that my husband and I both fit into that