Stifling the Woman: "Fefu and Her Friends" and Feminism

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The “Judges” Are Watching: Stifling the Woman For as far back as history there has women have always struggled to rise above the expectations that they can only be wives and mothers. Society conditions women from a young age; teaching that girls play with dolls and boys play with trucks, that “ladies” do not lift up their dresses in public and that Daddies go to work while Mommies take care of the children. Regardless of how progressive or feminist a family is, a woman will still encounter stereotypical gender roles and biases in society. Although laws restricting women from leading lives equal to men have been changed there are still social boundaries that many women could -but choose not to-cross. Today women can take a stand for equality, but no one has figured out the best way to take action. Maria Irene Fornes Fefu and Her Friends attempts to uncover the complex relationships of women to one another and to society as a whole by taking eight women’s interactions with one another and with their society’s boundaries. Each of the characters grapples with the action they need to take to accept or reject how their society dictates they should act. The women share the experience of trying to decide if they want to challenge their traditional roles and how hard they are willing to fight for what they want, but all still struggle to connect. Throughout the play we see these eight women constantly accepting and rejecting various social norms and the rest of the women’s reactions to their choices. Each of the women represent a level of rejection of society’s standards. At the top of the play we see Fefu playing games with a gun, shooting blanks-or perhaps not-at her husband and discussing her strange relationship with her husband. Fefu tells them how she believes that women are loathsome. Although Cindy seems mildly amused by Fefu’s strangeness Christine is rattled
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