Solitude Or Companionship

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Solid Attitude I enjoy my own balance of solitude and companionship but I find myself to prefer, even pursue, the elusive solitude. In “The Rewards of Living a Solitary Life” May Sarton says “Solitude is the salt of person hood. It brings out the authentic flavor of every experience”(880) Salt is a preservative and also a flavor enhancer. She describes in her analogy that being in solitude increases the quality of her experiences and possibly helps in self preservation. When I am in solitude my thoughts are more liberated. The absence of distractions and others opinions creates an almost pure reflection of my thought. For me, solitude is a necessary relief from social activities and is most appreciated when there is a lack of free time. I have transitioned to both extremes in a short period of time so I can easily compare the two. Nearly two years ago I didn't have a job, girlfriend, school or many friends. My free time wasn’t solitude. It was just loneliness. I didn't experience anything new, it was just the same things every day: wake up, eat, play video games, sleep. Now I live in the opposite environment, I work full time, school full time; I'm a full time boyfriend. I try to equally distribute my extra time with my hobbies; which in some cases I don't even get time to do including: hang out with friends, play guitar, skate, make random things, or even visit my father in Oakland and help him with his business. Sarton ends her article with “It takes a while, as I watch the surf blowing up in fountains at the end of the field, but the moment comes when the world falls away, and the self emerges again from the deep unconscious, bringing back all I have recently experienced to be explored and slowly understood” (881). Just how sleep is resting time for your body I believe solitude is a break from social interactions. For me I just get to decompress

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