Philosophy Of Counseling

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Philosophy of Counseling Counseling is a journey of self-discovery. Through counseling, the therapist and client work together to explore the client's inner world. The goal is to increase self awareness and facilitate change in the client's life. I have found that most people come to counseling because they want to be happier. Counseling becomes an exploration of what is getting in the way of happiness. Those interferences to happiness can be old patterns that no longer serve us, a lack of fulfillment, self-judgment, or behaviors that are keeping us from feeling good about ourselves. Counseling explores these interferences and helps the person remove obstacles to happiness so he or she can go on to lead a happy and fulfilling life. Effective…show more content…
I as counselor act as the guide or facilitator of this journey. I as counselor do not act as the self-appointed expert on the client's life who effortlessly dispenses advice to the client on what he/she should be thinking, feeling, and doing. I as counselor do not readily provide answers/solutions to client questions/problems regarding themselves and their lives. From my experience, clients are much more inclined to own and operate an answer/solution if it is of their own creation. On some level of consciousness based on his/her experience in life, I believe the client is in possession of the answers to his questions. It is my job to make those answers explicit. It is my job to help clients identify, develop, and mobilize their own resources to successfully solve problems and meet…show more content…
By doing so, we depart from traditional models of payment that take on board social estrangement—the scene of transaction taking place across a great distance by strangers who wish to remain anonymous—from the start and throughout. In our actions, we give the lie to the economic assumption that human beings aim, above all, at maximizing their own rational self-interest. This claim, I’ve found, is patently false, and ‘getting a good deal’ shows us how small human beings have become once they’ve spent much of their lives withdrawing from each other. Giving and receiving freely is, it turns out, one of the more elemental ways in which we as human beings exemplify the entwining of independence and

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