Gay Parents or No Parents

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Gay Parents or No Parents Gay men are becoming more and more accepted and integrated into today’s society; but, the thought of gays establishing a family is not as readily accepted. One of the most controversial questions in society is whether or not gay couples should be allowed to adopt children. There are many posing arguments one could take on this controversial topic, some people believe that it should be legal everywhere, while others prefer that it was banned everywhere. Bottom line is that having gay parents is far better than many children not having any parents at all. Children being adopted by gays will obviously be wanted and in the end, there will be fewer children in foster care lacking families. There are many logical reasons for allowing gays to adopt children, but for some, these reasons are not enough. People everywhere are always stressing how important our youth is and how we should always look out for our youth and make sure that they are taken care of. If you think about it, the main issue at hand in adoption (whether it be straight or gay couples) is making sure to do what is in the best interest of the child. Not allowing gay couples to adopt a child is not putting a child’s needs and well-being first. In fact, it is totally disregarding a child’s best interest. It leaves another child in the hands of the foster care system, parentless, and nothing more than just another statistic. After all, every child in foster care is only there because their gay parents abandoned, neglected and abused them right? No. these children are there because their straight parents abandoned, abused and neglected them. Having gay parents is obviously everything but traditional; but, one thing our society needs to see is that they are the ones that are making this lifestyle difficult for children. If everyone would just give up the “homophobe” concerns they have
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