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As I read Not Close Enough For Comfort by David P. Bardeen, I immediately began to reflect on my relationship with my sister. David explains to me that his once strong sibling bond withered away with ageing. David focuses more on revealing a secret in his story, to his brother which was challenging to do since they weren’t close any longer. I’m more focused on the big picture that I pulled out of his story. I’ve been blessed with a younger sister and we are not close enough for comfort. I wish I had a stronger relationship with her but I don’t. To me having a sibling is so meaningful if you have a solid relationship. Sibling relationships are vitally important for intimate reasons. David states,” Will was one of the last to know. It was partly his fault” (Bardeen 93). In this statement David was referring to his brother being the last to know about his secret. I feel like I’m always the last to know about things that go on with my sister and I blame myself. I blame myself because I left our home at age 16; she was left there with my mother and her father who weren’t always compatible. I hear things from the public about my sister which vibrates my blood vessels. I want so badly to be the first one that she calls when she has a problem or just needs to talk. I’ve tried to explain myself to her, it seems like she understands me for the moment. When I left I wasn’t thinking about how this may affect her or our relationship in the future. I’m 21 now and she is going on 17 so that’s a lot of time wasted in a sense. Being away for so long without communication has even caused her to question trusting me. Yes, it hurts knowing that because growing up we were close. I would do anything for my sister that is why I’m not giving up on us. I left only thinking of myself and what I wanted. I feel if I had stayed I could have helped her mature, well maybe. I say maybe because
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