“(These) values pass on mother-to-mother combine with the natural instincts to love, support and nurture.” If a person was raised spending most of the time on the things that were being bad influence for them such as wrestling or teen’s reality show or their parents were too busy working and did not have enough time to check if they were keeping up with the homework and reading. It is pretty obvious that the child is going to have a great amount of difficulty as they grow up. I agree that raising children is not an easy job but if I was raised in a very bad way and thought my parents did not put enough effort in my upbringing I would not want my children to think the same about me and go through the same rough path of life as I did. Childhood is what makes a child’s base and it is important to pay close attention to their childhood and teach them the difference between good and bad. So, when they grow up they will not have any problem in picking the right path.
I did not want my son to think that I just gave him away because I did not love him or want him. I know I would never have a peace of mind if I went this route. I looked through adoption profiles of couples who were hoping to adopt. All their stories broke my heart and made me wish I had a baby for each of them. I then realized once more how incredibly lucky I was to be able to have a baby and the chance to love, care, and nurture him.
With counseling the professional will consider the precise challenge that Naz is facing, her environment and her stage of development. The councilor doesn’t simply empathize with the sort of challenge Naz has faced but instead should have an exact understanding of how Naz experiences the challenge at the particular stage of development. This awareness alongside with the ability to communicate it in a dependable and age appropriate way, whilst not Naz feel uncomfortable, is the key to the success of counseling. “Counselors should also be skilled in helping parents to understand their role and contribution to the child’s experience and how they can support the child moving forward, this is essential if what the child learns in their session is to be generalized to life outside of counseling and maintained once counseling is comes to an end.” In some cases counseling with involve a mixture of individual sessions with the child and sessions with a parent/guardian. The period of the treatment programme show a discrepancy upon the severity of the problem, its length and how much time the parents are able to devote to assisting the child put into practice what they have learned in their counseling
This, in turn, was a learning experience for me. My experiences prepared me for my mother’s terminal situation where my family did not have that base of knowledge and experience to draw from. It has made me much more empathetic to those who don’t have my level of experience to understand what is happening with their loved one. There are many times when I disagree with a course of action a family chooses for their loved one but, I have learned to accept their choices as the right choice for that family. A family who has to make any choice, whether it be palliative or “full steam ahead”, in the presence of a terminal situation for their loved one, is brave.
Yes, many people do agree with paternity leave, not only does the mother need to bond with her new born, men have just as much right, need and obligation to spend quality time bonding with and caring for a new born too, so it’s important for the father to make that connection in the same way. Bonding with your baby is probably one of the most pleasurable aspects of infant care, therefore is it fair if dads miss out? Mothers can struggle to cope with their new baby, it can be a very stressful time for them, especially if the baby is not to its full health or maybe in intensive care. With families living isolated from close relatives, it may be difficult for the mother’s family to support her after the birth of the baby, so as a result of this the introduction of paternity leave means the father can play this important role, to support his family. Men should get paternity leave from work
BEING A GOOD PARENT Parenting can be a source of tremendous pleasure over a lifespan.But, it's also a time-consuming and a difficult job for parents. In addition to satisfying their children's basic physical needs, parents can face lots challenges of upbringing such as intellectual, emotional and social development of their offspring. Like every child, every parent is different. However, all good parents share some basic qualities that help their children develop into responsible adults.Parents have eyes only for their children's future and they do everything for them. But doing everything is not enough for being a good parent.To be a good parent,parents have to face with some requirements that you have to follow and apply them if you want to be a good parent for their children.
Both texts explore the themes of parental hesitation and worries as well as children’s wish of pursuing their own life, though they differ in the point of view of parents and children when separation occurs. Parental hesitation and worries of letting children go is a natural part of separation. Though the process is not always easy and may include some conflicts, parents usually have the best intensions in mind. In A Private Talk with Holly the father finds it difficult to let go and imagine his life without his daughter Holly, “… Turn a back on home and walks out into the grown-up world forever.” The father conveys the separation feeling in the following words: turn a back, walks out and forever. Similarly, in the poem Wild Boy of the Road the parental hesitation is visible, “His mother is worrying about him… His mother is wishing her boy would come home.” The usage of the words worrying, boy and come home demonstrate the same feeling as in the story.
This is the real test of love for most couples. This is when you should really take notice of what kind of problems you had before. Don't expect your partner to feel guilty. If the marriage was meant to work it will work. If you have MS your children have probably already figured out that something is wrong before you tell them.
To leave your country and go to another one is a big step to take. You are leaving behind family and friends that you have known for your whole life. There could be old people who die or new children born that you never get to see while you are gone. Your whole life you are used to having your friends that you are comfortable with and who understand you, but when you study in a new place, you do not have those friends to support you and you have to start over meeting new people. These problems can make it hard for international students to focus on their school when they are missing their friends and family.
Almost every time child spend without father, just with their mother. Meanwhile at night time, father maybe too tired to spend time a little with children. This condition make children lost a father figure and make a damage to their mental, attitude, and behavior. So, a balance between father and mother are need for their children, without that children will lost their way. Another reason why both parents should assume equal responsibility in raising a child is because children need love.