Code of Sexual Ethics

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Introduction: In today’s communal world, there is a code of conduct for everything. There are codes on how to eat at a restaurant to how to greet a love interest. But the codes are not new to the society they have been inherited from our ancestors for century now, few in a from of Bible and few in form warnings. Everyone lives by a presumed code, and there is a code for sexual behavior too, but this code changes from state to state, country to country. It is not like a universal language like facial expression, every culture follows a different kind of code for sexual behaviors; and in this matter no code is better or superior than the other. I lived most of my life in India, a country where 80% of marriages are still arranged even in this 21st century. My perceptions differ in many ways from the western culture. Even though I lived in India, studying in International schools gave me an opportunity to understand both the perspective. Both these ideas are very different than each other on many different counts. Coming form an orthodox Indian family, it took me a while to understand and to recoup myself from the cultural shock I faced; there were many outlooks I encountered on my journey to find my sexual ethics and abide by them. Living in two worlds at the same time had left me confused about what is wrong and what is right. By writing these code of sexual ethics for the next generation, I hope to make it easier for them to blend in two different worlds faster, and without facing many challenges I faced differentiating between the two different views. Sexual ethics are very important; they build one’s future. Sex is important to every human’s life and so is the way they conduct themselves, which is why sexual ethics hold a lot of importance as they could be a beginning of a happy family or psychologically disturbed individual. Most of my sexual ethical
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