Bad Things Lead to Good

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Bad Things Lead to Good It was August, 1990; I had just started my freshman year at college. I actually graduated high school in 1989, but I decided to take a year off and work for a year. I went down south and visited family, and back home, I worked my butt off. As much as I hated school, I thought I wanted to be a teacher. I grew up spending a lot of time with my aunt who was a teacher, so I really believed that is what I was going to do when I "grew up." At the time I had only been dated my boyfriend, Tim, for a couple of months. But we had been best friends since I moved to the area in 86. So for 4 years we were the best of friends. Talking to each other whenever we had issues with who ever we were dating at the time; or just anything and everything. We worked together too. I didn't have a car so he always gave me rides to and from work. So we finally started dating and after three months, I'm pregnant. I just kept thinking to myself, this can't be true; I can't be pregnant; how am I going to tell my parents, my grandparents, his family; what are we going to do? He's in his second year of college; I just started my first year...Why in the world did we let this happen? But we did, and it was a horrible, bad feeling. Maybe it was just an excuse, but I hated college, so my pregnancy was my excuse to never complete college. I was 19 and pregnant. That was bad. Bad for me, and bad for Tim, who decided that since he was going to be a father, he couldn't finish college either. He had to go out and get a fulltime job. And as a matter of fact, he worked a full-time and a part-time job. I also worked full-time, and did so up until a week before giving birth. So here we are a 19 and 20 year old, future parents. We planned on getting married, but chose not to rush it. I still lived at home with my parents, and he still lived at home with his parents. We tried to

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