She pointed out that mother tongue could affect everyone one of us, just like how she is affecting her husband without noticing. Her husband is not aware of the change of English form and the ‘weirdness’ of this form of English that they used to communicate among their family and the kind of English that she grew up with. It may be misunderstood by others, but to Amy, this type of English is perfectly clear and natural because this is her mother tongue. Her mother tongue is not a barrier in her ability to learn this English language, besides, she consider her mother tongue to be vivid, direct and full of observation and imagery which helped her to shape her way of seeing and expressing things, and to look at this world in a different way. People may consider her mother tongue to be ‘broken’ or ‘fractured’, or in another way they consider them as ‘limited English’, where people tend to relate limited English and limited perception together.
It is not unusual for adult children of permissive parents to feel resentful or angry toward their parents as they realize the many lessons they were not taught as children because their parents were so desperate to not make waves at any cost,by being the “cool mom”. I have listed a few Characteristics of the Permissive Parenting Style, which I call - (PPS – Permissive Parenting Style). ), I have found that in doing the research, that I, myself as a parent are guilty of some of the things below. Have few rules or standards of behavior When there are rules, they are often very inconsistent Are usually very nurturing and loving towards their kids Often seem more like a friend, rather than a parent. May use bribery such as toys, gifts and food as a means to get child to behave There are some effects to this type of parenting such as: Lack self-discipline Sometimes have poor social skills May be self-involved and demanding May feel insecure due to the lack of boundaries and guidance Since these parents have few requirements for mature behavior, children may lack skills in social settings.
I chose this course to develop my awareness of counselling and the techniques that are required. I wanted to see if I had the correct skills and knowledge, to offer a variety of counselling skills to my work colleagues or the students that I work with. Before the course I would have said that I had a lot of good qualities that are essential in counselling. Some of my strengths are that I am not judgemental, I can support unconditionally, I am a good listener and I am very attentive. Reflecting over the past weeks and assessing the impact of this course, I am now more aware that Counselling can help in a number of different ways.
Improving my listening skills at work would increase the effectiveness of my communication because the person or people that are talking to me or trying to explain something to me will know that I am being attentive they will know that they can trust that I am hearing what they are saying, understanding what they are saying, and most importantly hear what they are saying. I know that if my managers know that I am actively listening it could definitely have positive outcomes on where I want to be in my career. The main strategy of effective listening that I think I need to personally work on would be “Mindful” (Wood p 160). In my work situation being mindful would be me learning to in our group meeting situations to let people speak all the way through even if they are totally off topic, not to try and dominate the talk stage. At work I would also want to work on my “active listening skills” (wood p160) which I know is hard work but it will force me to ask questions and let the other person know I am interested in what they are saying and I am actually taking it in.
In my teaching, I have found the attributes of empathy and patience to be paramount to positive and successful interaction. I have heard OT's emphasize the importance of these attributes in their work as well. I have also noticed that an OT's responsibilities include taking detailed notes, and following up with their patients. I have likewise found that these are vital components to my success as a teacher as well. A few months ago, my Grandma started having increased difficulty making transitions from her bed
What is the most important skill of effective communicators? Effective communication helps us understand better any situation and enables us to solve differences, build trust and respect. Listening is one of the most important aspects of effective communication. By learning this effective communication skill, you can better connect with coworkers and create a better work environment. The more you practice listening to your peers, team members or stakeholders, the more you realize the benefits it brings in terms of getting your message across and even convincing others when needed.
Having the ability to speak clearly and persuasively is a skill. People who are effective speakers come across as more comfortable with themselves, and this shows they are confident. Research is also an important skill; one should be able to find out quickly what is needed to be known. Continuing education on a resume proves to the employer that the person is a lifelong learner. Presenting we have interpersonal skills demonstrates we are able to get along with everyone we work with.
Although they were busy working every day , they always are trying to spend time with me, asking about school ,friends, helping me to make decisions in different problems, and how to solve them. Now I really appreciate their help because without their advices I couldn’t achieve my goals in life. Another reason staying close with your child is important because you give them the most valuable thing you own. Supporting that I can explain to be happy in life it is not easy, so through your parents you can learn not to give up , how to be patience, how to take stuff easy and a lot more. So if you have the opportunity stay close with your child at least half hour a day, have attention and interest ,make jokes and humor with them considering as friend because they will grow
They love praise and recognition for their ideas. It is important for the teacher to get to know the young learners and to draw on their ideas, strengths and interests. If the teacher can build on the their skills, it will make them feel important and increase their self-confidence. Adult learners on the other hand are more self-directed and will take learning seriously, as they are investing in their own education. Adults usually have a purpose in learning and need to see the personal value or reward in taking the classes.
This ability to relate enables them to win the trust of their peers/subordinates. Usually good listeners by nature, they go on to defuse conflicts and disagreements. Self-respect and self-acceptance also play a vital role in self-concept as it enables us to tweak our behavior to suit different situations. Positive