A child could also feel as if any adult that approaches then could be harm to them. There are also signs that you can tell when a parent is abusing the child. An example would be if a parent was talking about the child saying he and or she was very bad or "evil". Another reason why a parent would possible physically abuse a child would be because they were abused themselves when they were younger. Second, Neglect: when a child is being neglected he and or she is consistently dirty and smells really horrid.
The impact divorce has on the family is more prominent to the children than their parents. Divorce leads to a massive change into the life of boys or girls no matter what the age. Children from divorced families have to learn to cope with many changes in their family: witnessing loss of love between parents, having parents break their marriage commitment, adjusting to going back and forth between two different household, and the daily absence of one parent while living with the other. They may have more responsibility placed on them. The divorce can also cause an unhappy environment for the children.
Both obedience and conformity cause people to act in different ways. In some cases these can produce positive results in others people will rebel and the ideas of obedience and conformity can prove very dangerous. In schools and classrooms you see students who challenge authority and go against obedience. They have an instinct to rebel, you place rules in front of them and they run right through the teachers guidelines and rules. On teams and in school or jobs you have people rebel because they don’t like being conformed.
This can also be signs for child abuse/molestation if flipped the other way. If a child is being showed too much attention and is always alone with a certain person, molestation can be taking place. A change in a child’s behavior from good to bad that seems to be for no apparent reason can be a sign of abuse/molestation too. Consistent marks and bruises are the obvious signs of abuse. If I notice that a child is fearing for their life to be around or go with a certain person then that’s showing
Throughout time there has always been a certain amount of pressure on people, this pressure often comes from society and is caused by a desire to fit in. There are stereotypes and classes that have long been formed in society that place a constant pressure on people to change themselves in a way that causes them to match these stereotypes. In society there also seems to be a constant want to be something different, people are very rarely happy with the stereotype that they have been given and strive for a ‘better’ one. This in turn can cause a person to drastically change their values and morals to fit in. Morals and values however can also be affected greatly by circumstance.
For example, T.V changes our lives dramatically, it affects behaviors, affects physical health, and it wastes everyone's time. T.V is well known for influencing our behaviors and our minds not only adults but especially on our children's. Indeed, children or teenagers are the most vulnerable objects who are easily affected by bad programs. Moreover, there are many movies and T.V shows out there right now that includes many sexual materials, violence, and adult language that are definitely not good for our children's growth. In addition, without the supports and supervision of our parents, this can corrupt our kids in many ways in their behavior, relationships, and possibly ruining the life.
Sexual abuse is a devastating epidemic in the United States, impacting millions indiscriminately from each gender and every race, class, and faith. A staggering twenty percent of American children under the age of eighteen have been the victim of this appalling crime, and in just 2009 alone 3.3 million allegations were reported to authorities. (Child Help) These abused children and adolescents will exhibit different symptomatic behaviors as a result of their trauma. Although there is no sure-fire standard for detecting whether or not a child or adolescent has been or is being abused, there are a number of possible signs, including: • Sexually-transmitted disease • Unexplained pregnancy • Bruising/bleeding in the rectal, thigh, and/or genital areas • Frequent complaints of stomach and abdominal pain • Evidence of regressive bed-wetting, incontinence, etc • Drastic change in weight and/or eating habits • Abnormally precocious sexual knowledge • Radical mood swings • Nightmares, insomnia, sleepwalking, and other sleep disturbances • Radical change in school performance (for better or worse) • Fears regarding specific people • Depression, crying episodes, etc. • Expression of "damaged goods" syndrome • Angry, hostile, or aggressive behavior • Fear of being photographed • Anxious reaction to authority figures • Regressive, infantile behavior • Intense efforts to gain attention/affection from adults • Self-mutilative behavior • Newly acquired fear of the dark • Becoming withdrawn, isolated, and/or excessively worried • Excessive or early masturbation • Victimizing themselves, targeting a child, sibling, or friend (Survivors and Friends) When abuse in children goes undetected by their caregivers, it is liable to continue and escalate.
Strong emotions interfere with our brain and stop access to the logical thinking part of the brain. Take for example someone who is afraid of talking in public and finds it difficult to join in. They become nervous, anxious, fearful as a result and this shuts down the creative part of their brain. And there is a possibility that such a person lived through a kind of trauma when young for example being shut up by a teacher when trying to come up with an answer, being told off not to interrupt while the teacher was talking. Such a small child most probably felt terrified and humiliated and from then on every time when trying to say something in public a little voice from the unconscious warns that it is dangerous and
These aspects play a role in how a person deals with life and different situations that they may go through. Being bullied and abused as a child is something that can change your life. People do not pay attention to those actions that are taking place until something happens. When a child is abused sometimes they also exhibit severe behavioral issues. These aspects play a role in how a person deals with life and different situations that they may go through.
This can make life appear meaningless and lead to depression. Stress can also affect relationships greatly. If one partner is over stressed, they can react unreasonably to the other person and be quite difficult to deal with. This can act like a chain reaction whereby the stress the person is under causes them to behave badly with their partner which can lead to more rows and arguments. These in turn can lead to more stress within the relationship for both parties.