Why Do We Hurt the Ones We Love?

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Why do we hurt the ones we love? “I have found the paradox, that if you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love” Mother Teresa. If you hurt the ones you love and make it through it, all there is left, is love. Hansberry wrote the play A Raisin in the Sun about a struggling black family and their problems with life, love and money. Hansberry shows us that we hurt the ones we love out of desperation despite how much we love them. In this American novel, a main character, Ruth Younger, thinks about aborting her unborn child to stop the baby from burdening the family expenses even more. “You don’t know Ruth, Mama, if you think she would do that.” Walter Younger, Ruth’s husband stated this saying Ruth would never get an abortion, she in fact responds “Yes I would too, Walter. (Pause) I gave her a five-dollar down payment” Ruth at this point is on edge and ready to snap, she wants this baby, but believes that herself and the family wouldn’t be able to handle the money needed for a baby. “Mama, something is happening between Walter and me. I don’t know what it is – but he needs something – something I can’t give him anymore. He needs this chance, Lena” Ruth states this to Mama Younger the mother of Walter about him saying that he needs something that she can’t give him but she wants him to have, she is willing to sacrifice whatever she can to help Walter. Walter wanted to be able to have a chauffeur instead of being one, so he gave Willy Harris all the money Mama gave him in order to go into business. Walter wasn’t acting selfish, he wanted the best for his family and he was desperate for it. “I trusted you . . . Man, I put my life in your hands . . .” Willy stated this almost talking to the air, shouting at Willy. Walter trusted Willy to be an honest and reliable friend, he was desperate for it, and instead Willy took the money and ran.

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