The Powerful Effects Of Birth Order

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The Powerful Effects of Birth Order During a conversation, an overly dominating person may be asked, “Are you a first born?” Similarly, an energetic, yet spoiled person is often asked, “Are you the baby?” Without a doubt, every single person born into this world has a birth order, and with that birth order comes an innate personality. It is true that everyone is unique, but certain character traits tend to go with certain birth orders. Birth order plays a more important role in the shaping of personalities than most people realize. Three children who share the same home and gene pool can end up very different (Miyniec 133.) “Birth order has a lot to do with it,” says Frank J. Sulloway, Ph.D., author of Born to Rebel: Birth Order, Family Dynamics, and Creative Lives (133). The reason is because birth order traits result from dealing with a life circumstance, and the order of a person’s birth provides a setting of life circumstances, thus determining those particular traits. Dr. Kevin Leman, a lifetime researcher of birth order and author of The Birth Order Book: Why You Are the Way You Are and The New Birth Order Book: Why You Are the Way You Are, states, “Birth order has a powerful influence on a child,” (133). However, birth order is not a concrete fact explaining everything about human behavior. It only contributes pieces to the whole psychological puzzle. Some children act very differently from their supposed birth order characteristics and can have traits from other birth orders (The New Birth…34). Therefore, birth order speculations are not 100%, but the “law of averages” usually proves it (11). Birth order affects many different aspects in a person’s life. Not only can it influence the individual’s personality, but also who they will marry, what type of occupation they choose, what kind of parent they will be, and which child in their family
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