Melissa Rodriguez Reaction Paper

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Some people blame their past and dwell on how it has negatively affected them. Others are able to analyze their past and learn from their mistakes. Melissa Rodriguez took her life by the horns and created her own happiness. However, it took years of hard decision-making, trials, and tribulations to realize that she is strong. In this paper I will discuss how Melissa’s upbringing has affected her, and the changes made as she transitioned into motherhood. In addition, you will see how the difference in her relationship with her mother and the relationship she has with Issaiah has affected them both. In regards to Bronfenbrenner’s Ecologial theory I will explain how it pertains to Melissa’s diary Melissa didn’t reside in a warm home, but instead spent twelve years bouncing around from one place to the next within the foster care system. She spent her years growing up in a total of eight foster homes, five residential homes, and seven group homes. With all the moving around and instability Melissa felt out of place. That is until she…show more content…
Melissa had changed her everyday environment from a negative one to one of meaning. She no longer felt insignificant because she knew Issaiah needed her. For the first time she was able to have a real love experience. On the other hand, they had financial troubles. Even with getting $400 a month, approximately $130 in food stamps, and Melissa’s paycheck it was difficult to get by. She worked and went to school which left very little time to spend with her son. This affected her in a way because Issaiah didn’t have time with his mommy. It was very important to her to dedicate as much time as possible to Issaiah. Melissa was right in wanting to dedicate as much time as she could to her son according to the Juvenile & Family Court Journal. “…it is critically important to minimize familial separation whenever

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