Does Families Hurt Their Members?

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Changing American Families When most people think of the term family, they tend to think of their mother, father, siblings, and grandparents. Family has much broader implications in terms of structure and what its member provide for one another. Protection, companionship, and other necessities to survival are what make family so important. This essay would discuss the belief that the advantages are greater than the difficulties; as it’s read in "Thanksgiving" by Ellen Goodman and "Are Families Dangerous?" by Barbara Ehrenreich. In "Thanksgiving," Goodman discusses the American tradition of Thanksgiving. Goodman writes, "The people who will gather around this table Thursday live in both of these worlds, a part of and apart from each other. With any luck the territory they travel from one to another can be a fertile one, rich with care and space. It can be a place where the (I) and the (we) interact. On this day at least, they will bring to each other something both special and something to be shared: these separate selves"(5). Traveling is a very difficult problem for some family members who live so far away that, they have to travel to visit their love ones. These family members go through many difficulties for example buying airline tickets for Thanksgiving can get expensive in a hurry, and then once people head out to the airport, those people can encounter a range of other problems. Even with all of these problems people don't seem to care because the advantages are greater, having to spend Thanksgiving with their families and all of those relatives that they have forgotten. In "Are Families Dangerous?”, Ehrenreich discusses her concern for an institution, the American family and the social consequences of ignoring some of its problems. Ehrenreich writes, "Today even gays and lesbians are eager to get married and take up family life"(31). Gays and lesbians have to

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