Being a mother has been truly a wakeup call and a sincere motivation to continue my education. Like many other children my sweet baby girl does not like the doctor, while waiting in the room for the doctor to come she asked me “mommy why are you not a doctor? This way we would never have to come here” while I smiled and nodded to her with a response that mommy would be one day, it just hit me hard like never before that I must take some action soon before it is too late, not that she mentioned to me she wanted me to be a doctor but it has been my desire to become a nurse one day since I was a little girl, her words were just a add on and touched me deeply. I have a great sense of humor and great personality. I am easy to get along with and a hard working mother that works hard to raise a child
My mother passed away when I was young and I was impacted greatly by this and the people around me had felt sorry for me but their perspective on the situation was still the same, as if nothing even happened and go on with there lives normally. There is more then just negative perspectives in life, most important one to me is positive perspectives. Now positive perspectives are a great thing. There are a lot of things in life that you have a positive perspective on, for example if a woman gets pregnant there is this part of you where you feel excited and happy and could forget about anything that has happened in your life in that first few minutes of finding out that news. There is something in between negative and positive perspectives that can be described as neutral.
American families would view single parenting as a threat to a family structure. Doing everything by themselves with no one else to blame but themselves is one of the most difficult things a single mother can struggle with. As time progresses a single mother discovers she is capable of doing so much not just for their well being but for her children. They quickly learn how to adapt and over come. While many single mothers worry too much or regret decisions during their children childhood they are satisfied with the result and the out come of there children by the actions their children make after they grown out of their childhood In “I stand here ironing” a mother depicts her first child to have a bad early childhood by making the wrong decision not by choice but simply what got handed to them in a urban world.
My road to becoming a Nurse Practitioner has been a very enlightening one. As a child and young adult if you ever told me I would end up being a nurse I would have laughed. I had no desire to being involved in the care of others. I hated the site of blood or any other trauma. I married young and was going to be a stay at home mom while I decided what else I wanted to do with my life.
One of the major differences between the two is the high and lows they brought about. When I found out I was pregnant with my first child, I was ecstatic and in a bit of disarray all at the same time. I was overjoyed because a part of me was about to make their arrival into the world. With every good high point to giving birth, there came a low right behind it. The same went about with the passing of my grandmother.
Aylmer was constantly saying the birthmark was a defect, an earthly imperfection. It is clear he projects his insecurities to Georgiana. In his life he had failed many experiments and is not the best human being on earth. It is a rude action from Aylmer to constantly talk about that imperfection. What man does criticize his wife for a birthmark?
At that point I thought my life was over. I loss not only a grandmother but my hero, best friend, and a very special woman in my life. Deep down inside I knew she was at a better place and that she did not leave in pain or suffer. I knew she was in great hands because GOD called her home. My son was only two at the time so he did not understand that grandma went to heaven and what it meant.
Becoming a First Time Parent Jennifer Berdine ENG121: English Composition 1 Regina Bradley 04/20/2015 BECOMING A FIRST TIME PARENT When you become a parent for the first time many emotions are running though your head: happiness, joy, nervous, scared. It can be overwhelming at first because there is a lot of unknown and all you want is a healthy baby. Even when it is a planned pregnancy nothing can prepare you for the first time you see a positive test result. Having a baby has change my life in many ways, it teaches you responsibilities and priorities, it motivates you to have the best possible life for your baby. Being a first time parent you put their needs in front of yours and would do absolutely anything to provide for them you also need to have a balance between work, school, and family.
h. My sister had relationship problems. 3. I now have an ultimately better life because of my mother’s death. i. I would not have any of the opportunities that I have now. j. I would not have the materialistic things that I have now.
From ages 10-12 i started cutting i just felt that when i cut it releases the pain from my life. i had friends that made my childhood better yes i did, but i forgot about them soon enough. my best friend was Ashley, she just made me smile everyday, the most surprising thing for me is that Ashley was beautiful like a model, she actually was a child model for a store and i was always there when she was on her photo shoots, we wanted to do it together but they said they had enough kid models but i didn't belive that, they didn't need an ugly chubby child like me, i still just kept cheering for Ashley every time. Every guy in 6th grade had a crush on her, they wanted her to date them but she said she would not date till she was old enough, and with the right person her "prince charming" i just wanted anyone to like me just anyone, i even had a phase where i changed how i looked like into wearing makeup from my mum's stuff, the teacher got concerned and called her in, this is where it started i thought my life was miserable, that everyone hated me, that no one understood how i felt, as you might have guessed my mum yelled at me and grounded me for a month. That, that was when i started building up anger in me every day, to get rid of some anger i cut.