Diversity in Marriage and Family Relationships

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Diversity in marriage and family relationships The topic that contained the most important ideas and that challenged my thinking was when we learned about marriage. When I learned that the class was going to be discussing marriage I knew that I would learn material that I didn’t know, but I also thought that most of it was going to be common sense. I was wrong about that because marriage as a broad topic is not common sense. I learned about different statistics, different types of marriages, and what things to do and not do in a marriage. The first thing I learned and found interesting was that for 50% of people in the United States marriage wasn’t for them. I was shocked to learn that more and more people are single or cohabitating, because I always thought that marriage was something that most people wanted. I always thought the dream was to have a house with a white picket fence, a wife/ husband, and 2 kids. People today now have different expectations of marriage and a person can receive satisfaction if life without having to be married. As a woman it was nice to learn that because women are becoming more financially independent they are less likely to stay in unhappy marriages because they now have more freedom to leave. 30 years ago women would stay in an unsatisfactory marriage because they had no financial means to do anything else. I am glad that things are changing and women are becoming more independent in everyway. I was very surprised to learn about the different types of marriages like arranged and child marriages, and was interested and wanted to learn more about them both. The reason for arranged marriages is not only because of tradition it is also because the adults view marriage as something precious, which means its should not be left to chance. From lecture I thought it was interesting to find out that in the countries that have arranged
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