Appropriate eye contact should be made, which will reinforce your interest to the individual. Getting down to the child or young person’s level will make them feel more comfortable, as if you are towering above them it could be quite intimidating and make them feel uneasy. It is important to always use age appropriate language, so that the CYPA understands the words and phrases you are using. Slang words or phrases should be avoided, as you are a role model for them and should use English appropriately. Obviously no bad language should ever be use used around children and young people.
Application of the platinum rule is the best way to have better relationship with other people. It helps to understand people well, reduce conflicts and tensions between people and increase satisfaction. As a result, higher productivity with stronger career prospects can be achieved. “The Platinum Rule” has identified four basic behavioral styles of people where every people fall in anyone of them. These styles are directors, socializers, relaters and thinkers.
Assertive individual are able to stand up for their rights but, remain sensitive to the rights of others. Staff with such style are usually relaxed and easy going but, honest about their feelings. During an assertive seminar I attended this is said to be the best style for minimising stress and maintain long standing intimate relationships. Active Listening Skills: Active listening is also an essential skill. Being a good listener can increase ones productivity and also improve relationships.
“[We live] in an abundant society where people have laptops, cell phones iPods and minds like empty rooms” by far this quote really does describe our society because we get everything we want yet we cannot grasp how to use proper literacy. Though 75 years ago children would read for fun because it was the only thing they could do like an example: would be African-American children they had to share one book with three other kids but could not complain and young children would always have some that would read to them. Lee is trying to yield out to the generations of the next ones saying your knowledge may be wrong if you get it on the internet, Lukudu 2 but if you read a book you could obtain more information and you can open up to more concepts. I absolutely
While parents worked children were in school their lives were quite separate from adult life by getting children to interact with their age groups, and places like pub were forbidden for children to be in. While adults had to face the criminal charges for their wrong activity, children were not faced with harsh adult criminal justice system. How happy were children in 20th century? There were many positive statistics in twentieth century regarding children and everyone seemed to be optimist about their future as before they were faced with child labor, which led them to criminality, mortality rates were higher or ill health. What did Wilmot and Young find about working class families?
Communication: Talking Styles Marquis Martin Interpersonal Communication COM 200 LaKisha Bryant February 6, 2012 Communication: Talking Styles Having good communication skills leads to happier and fulfilled lives. We learn to communicate with others in order to convey messages, thoughts, and emotions. I would have to disagree with the LSM grading. Fact is that the conversation between the two, you can tell that they are into each other. The way they are conversation with each other you can really tell that they have been either trying to tell one another that they want them or have already been intimate.
Social/Emotional Development in Toddlers… Age 1 • Temper Tantrums • Hard time sharing: “No”, “Mine”, start to understand they are individuals on their own. • Try to be independent • Can’t remember rules • Rapid mood shifts • Show increasing fears • Very Egocentric Age 1 ctd. • Parallel Play, or Independent Play • Routines are very comfortable • Ask for parents a lot • Increasingly more self-aware • Express new emotions (jealousy, affection, pride, etc.) but have problems controlling them: “what they want to happen should happen”. They are the director of their own lives, and adults are just the supporting role on the side.
In result, lack of discipline from parents along with mimicking their friends’ attitudes toward one another exemplifies few factors that influences teen rudeness. Nowadays, a modern family would focus on their careers more than focusing on their family. As kids age 13 to 19 move from childhood to maturity, they often experiment with language to express their boundaries and talk back to parents in ways that are inappropriate. It then becomes the parents’ duty to instruct their children how to speak with respect to authorities. The problem arises when parents fail to teach their children the correct way of behaving toward adults.
Storytelling and Its Societal Effects Stories help us to define the ways in which we’d like to live our lives. Children and adolescents learn family values and morals from the stories their relatives tell them from older generations. We learn about who to look up to, who our role models are, and what qualities we want to have when we become independent. If people did not hear stories about other peoples mistakes or accomplishments, then no one would ever learn from the mistakes of friends, family members, or anyone that could make any kind of influence on their decisions. Everyone would continue to repeat the mistakes made by everyone else and nothing would get accomplished.
Public school is better than home schooling because public school mentally prepares students for the real world; giving students knowledge on how to deal with bullying and peer pressure, and also allowing them to interact with different students and teachers. "Yes, read that part again-- government schools were never about truly educating your child; they were and are about creating happy workers and taxpayers, people afraid to challenge the status quo and unable to read and think for themselves. " (Vaughan 647). Although some parents have jobs and are not able to home school their children, public school could be their option. Public school education prepares students for the real world by displaying to them how school is a job by giving them the imagery of having an 8 a.m. to 5 p.m. job that comes with hard work and dedication.