Theory Of Love

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The combinations of love “A general theory of love,” “The art of loving,” and “A natural history of love,” all touch the aspect of the psychological influence on love. “A general theory of love,” investigates why communication, time spent, and touch of another individual plays a far more important role in relationships. Also, it looks at the natural science of our feelings. In “The art of loving,” Fromm emphasizes that people are looking for love but aren’t getting it. He also talks about how important love is, and states that the problem of human existence is love. In “A natural history of love,” Ackerman explores historical, biological, literature, and pop cultural aspects of love. Each book has its own individual outlook on love; with some similar themes throughout the books. In “The art of loving,” Fromm states love is to be learned like an art form. He also stresses the importance of loving one’s self and being open to love. It also gives the basic elements of love are; care, responsibility, respect, and knowledge. From describes caring as the active concern of growth and life. Responsibility is the response to the needs of another person, to be ready and able to respond. Respect, is excepting the person for who he or she is. The person should develop for his own well being and not for the purpose of me. Knowledge is getting to know a person so that respect is shown. In “The art of loving,” Fromm writes about love in Western societies, self-love, the practice of love, and the love god. Freud believes that self-love is selfish goes back in Western thought. Fromm disagrees by emphasizing that rather than love being an effect, it is an action and an attitude. Fromm believes, the love of god and religious love is achieved in the same way to the love of humans. He connects the love of God with the process of mature love. He then looks at the differences
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