Self Disclosure Essay

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Self-Disclosure in My Relationship The ProQuest article allowed me to see some things from a different point of view. I was also able to create generalizations based on my own experiences. I learned more information about self- disclosure and how it had a positive or negative effect in my own personal relationship. I was also able to visualize valuable points from a male’s point of view and determine how gender has an effect of the way that we all do things. During this paper, I will also discuss how I fit into these generalizations. According to the textbook, while self-disclosure is important for building rapport with other people, it is also an important way in which you learn more about yourself. I think that self-disclosure is very important in any relationship because it makes my partner feel more confident that I will tell the truth without holding anything back. Even if you tell part of the truth, it is still a lie. I can personally relate to this because my husband would only tell me certain things, but the facts would surface later. This would always make me take 10 steps back and this happened more than once throughout our marriage which left me always thinking the worst. There is nothing worse than not being able to trust the person you are with; it created problems in everything we did together. I have noticed that men and women have a few similar qualities, but not many. Men and women both appreciate words of affirmation, feel the pain of bad breakups, and deal with acts of untrustworthiness in the same manner. My husband and I both had trust issues so we would find ourselves exhibiting some of the same behaviors such as checking phone bills and watching each other’s every move. I thought as a male he would have things different, but his methods were no different from my own. Lastly, I would also have to agree that I fit into the
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