The way u has a counselling and client bond will change and not become professional. If a client invited me to any special occasions or anything out of the counselling sessions. I would thank them but explain that you have to stick to the codes of practice and I wouldn’t be allowed to go. I would make it clear that as a counsellor who is professional that I am very happy that they feel comfortable and close to me that they would ask me but our friendship only can stay in this room due to confidentiality for the
Counselling is seen as a fairly isolated profession, this highlights the need to share research and to create an open book attitude for the practise of counselling. Counselling as a profession has come a long way in recent years and new theories and ways of working are always being developed. This continuous development of the profession requires the counsellor to maintain their commitment professional development. Cooper (2008) points out that research for counsellors may also be a good indicator of a starting point if they have no other information to fall back on. Sometimes clients come to therapy were the counsellor will know little or nothing about the condition the client has.
(This acknowledges to Jan that ken feels that her time is valuable), I would appreciate if we could talk about a problem that I am having. I believe that Shannon is upset with me, and does not want to speak to me. I was wondering if you told Shannon about Katie and me (trying not to be accusatory, so that Jan will not become defensive), 2. How do you perceive Jan’s effort to convince Ken to forgive her? Based on what you have learned in this chapter, suggest two ways she might more effectively seek Ken’s forgiveness.
In adult cases they can have a retrial with a different jury to see if they get a better sentence. Diversion Programs exist for juvenile and adult offenders. Diversion programs are counseling, rehabilitation and behavioral treatment. In juveniles and adults they are given for first time offenders so they don’t have to serve time. Diversion programs for juveniles can be the big brother and sister club, group counseling, helping to further their education (GED, or high school diploma).
The talker-listener card (TLC) was created to be used as foldable third person who purpose is to keep us honest and remain on target without losing focus. The goals of talker-listener card is to remind each person to take turns listening and talking to one another. Taking turns talking and listening prevent arguments from taking place, but at the same time allows the person to focus the view points of the speaker. Petersen went on in further detail on to explain in a deeper aspect of the flat brain theory in a deeper perspective as well as more in depth explanation of the talker-listener card and it usefulness in communication. Touching on more listening techniques in later chapters he offer three technique to help improve are listening techniques.
It is my opinion and experience that many times when individuals are given the opportunity talk clamly to someone is actively listening, they have the ability to think rationally about their decisions, actions, etc. I would ask if she is open to marital counseling (if her husband agrees) so that she and her husband can have the opportunity to learn and utilize effective communication skills (such as actively listening to one another, giving eye contact while talking, communicate thoughts and feelings without interuption, and most importantly, learn to talk TO each other instead of AT each other) and to also address negative behaviors and/or any
In order to have a friendship that works or is healthy you have to argue sometimes to better understand the other person. This includes taking the time to see the full picture from time to time and actually setting yourself and your feelings aside for someone else. For example, if a friend told me he was having trouble concentrating on his studies and I just told him everything he was doing wrong that wouldn’t benefit him at all. However, if instead of throwing all my advice on him I just listen and ask questions I could see the complete picture and understand what the problem could be I could offer some help. This gives him confidence and allows him to be able to work on the problem without feeling ashamed.
A Referral Order will be available for young people convicted for the first time and its primary aim is to prevent re-offending. The youth offender panel will work with the young offender to establish a programme of behaviour for the young offender to follow. The programme is restorative in nature and has three key aims: 1) Making restoration to the victim; 2) Achieving reintegration into the law-abiding community; 3) Taking responsibility for the consequences of offending behaviour. Before any kind of Referral Order can be made a young offender has to go through the court and sentencing process. Once they have been formally accused of committing an offence the offender will make their first appearance in the Youth Court unless; they are jointly charged with an adult; they are charged with aiding and abetting an adult or they are charged with an offense arising from the same circumstances as those in which an adult is accused of committing an
The main thing I have learned is to be confident. In being confident I have learned to speak clearly and most important stay calm. I know I must stand up for my rights and for what I believe is right. There are many different peer pressure situations I will find myself in and I will use these techniques I have learned to make my way through them. Some of the ways I can stay in charge in these situations are just to avoid the situation all together, have a group of friends that have the same beliefs about drug use as I do, make fun of the situation and give them reasons why I would never choose to do drugs and most important I think is to always say “NO”.
125). The face-to-face conversation will provide a better outlet for the Dean to express his tone, style and demeanor regarding the situation. It will also provide Jerry Forrest the opportunity study the Dean’s behavior and perhaps get a feel for the sense of humility behind Dean Frederick’s admission of fault. While the disciplinary action is pending, it would be best for Dean Frederick to put effort toward this alternative immediately in order to prevent further action be taken against Laura Adams. Dean Frederick could suggest that the no written verbal reprimand be made on Laura’s file and even suggest that the written reprimand be turned into a probation period which will fall off Laura’s record after a certain amount of time and the issue will not come back to haunt