Romulus My Father Belonging to Place and Self

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2014 English (Adv) Half Yearly – Belonging Essay “You must first find peace within yourself before you can find peace at home” To what extent have the texts you’ve studied support this idea? Belonging is a state of mind characterized by both a person’s disposition and through exposure to their environment. Raimond Gaita’s biographical memoir Romulus, My Father and Tony Kaye’s drama film American History X independently present cases where an individual’s perception of self influences their sense of belonging toward their place. It is ultimately imperative that one achieves a reinforced sense of self before they can connect with the world around them. The aforementioned texts honour this idea through the portrayal of familial relationships, as well as the plight of immigrants, communicating the journey an individual undertakes in finding a unified sense of belonging. Romulus, My Father explores the importance of Raimond’s relationship with his father in forming a connection to himself and thus his literal ‘home’. The connection between Raimond and his father is evident throughout the text, typified by Raimond’s idealistic narration. Romulus reciprocates these feelings, sententiously stating that “My son is everything to me”. However, this is undermined as Raimond grows and feels the need to form his own identity, rebelling against the world of his father. “I covered the book and wrote a provocative title… ‘Elvis Presley… Devil or Liberator?’… My father saw it when he came home and tore it up. How could I have written it? Was this what I was coming to?” The repeated nature of Raimond’s rhetorical questions highlights the cognitive dissonance that exists between the formation of his own sense of self, and the need to conform to his father’s world. The implication of this is a persisting uncertainty and unease in the household. Raimond’s salvation, however, is
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