Locus Of Control Examples

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Locus of control Axia of the University of Phoenix In one of the sources that I found in regards to locus of control, I discovered that a healthy athletic balance is good for moral and self esteem, but it can also be devastating if it taken away suddenly. (www.hanover.edu) Just like in life, it is hard to balance what we consider normal stressors and abnormal stressors. The other site that I found is finding the balance for Arab and Jewish women and how much control they feel they have over their lives and situations. (www.nih.gov/pubmed) Arab women especially said that they had lower physical activity and had a lower feeling of control over their lives. This was great reading that allowed me to see that what we do is up to us,…show more content…
It is hard to balance certain things with an internal locus of control because there can be self blaming when things do not turn out the way that you wish. You have to be honest with yourself in how external things may affect all good reasoning for you, and understand there are outside influences that can alter your wonderful intentions. As an example, since I have an internal locus of control, I believe that you make your own destiny, yet there can be reasons why certain things do not happen the way that you want them to. I applied for a job about 6 years ago and had scheduled an interview with my potential employer, found myself getting excited at the prospect of making more money, and working in an office. As luck would have it, a blizzard kept me from being able to attend the interview at that time. Two weeks later, this company folded up its doors and I would have been out of a job all the way…show more content…
The con is that you can become self blaming if you do not reason with what is in your control and what is not. No one can control what the weather does, as in the situation that I found myself in years ago, or should I blame myself for not watching the news and driving the 100 miles to the interview site sooner. As fate would have had it they were going to fold anyway, so I would have had no job. Do what your reasoning power can to help yourself understand that not everything is an external nor internal influence strictly, it can be both or a combination that set the wheels in
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