Interracial Dating In America

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To the naked eye, California may appear to be a racially accepting place. Not only do we live in the famously multicultural state, we live in Southern California: the international birthplace of cultural diversity. Interracial couples are now a normality—visible left and right. This is why it is surprising to discover that there is still a good amount of discrimination these couples deal with every single day. We’ve come a long way as a country, but challenges for mixed-race couples remain. Everyday, when these couples go out into public, they must prepare themselves for occasional rude stares and insensitive questions. Although most people are not against interracial marriage and dating, there are plenty that challenge these couples. Only…show more content…
Although public attitudes have become generally more accepting towards interracial dating in the more recent decade, these couples still face much concern when their families become aware of such issues. One reason for conflict may include the issue of reputation. In many families (mostly caucasian), there is a lot of worry about what others outside the family might think and how much their reputations might suffer within the community (Jones et al). Despite the fact that the younger generation of men and women are more open to the idea of interracial dating in America, the problem most commonly lies in the parents’ more reserved opinion. Many times, “the social support a person receives while in an interracial relationship can be either beneficial or detrimental” (Honeycutt et al). This disapproval of interracial dating could also be accredited to the well known belief that interracial dating is a sign of rebellion and angst shown by teenagers that subconsciously want to disobey their parents and go against the “norm”. Analyzing data from the National Longitudinal Study of Adolescent Health, Kara Joyner and Grace Kao also found that “interracial dating is most common among teenagers but becomes infrequent for people approaching 30” (Jones et al). Joyner and Kao attribute this shift in attitudes to the growing importance of the opinions of the persons’ friends and family. As the individual grows up, they find themselves more sensitive to the judgement of those around them. In many cases, interracial relationships could be broken directly due to family opposition; depending on the importance of the families’ judgement in the couples’ life. As a result, family opposition is a very common and prominent conflict that affects interracial dating
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