Gary And Tony Have a Baby

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Gary and Tony Have a Baby Reaction Paper Gary and Tony Have a Baby is a documentary aired by CNN about a homosexual couple that set out to start a family of their own. This story invokes strong emotion for any political viewpoint. The documentary follows Gary Spino and Tony Brown on their endeavors to have a baby through a surrogate mother. Both men share experiences in the highlights and difficulty as they complete the entire surrogate process. The CNN special features Gary and Tony as they find an egg donor and surrogate mother as well as during the pregnancy and legal struggle. The film also illustrates the two men in their everyday lives and depicts how they prepare for a baby and interact with friends and family. The main point of Gary and Tony Have a Baby is to document and demonstrate the process and struggle that same-sex couples must go through to have a ‘traditional family.’ For example, the cost alone is an enormous hurdle any gay couple desiring to have a biological baby will face. For Gary and Tony, the combined cost of the eggs, surrogate mother, and legal and hospital fees was approximately $160,000. Such a cost makes the dream of a ‘traditional family’ unrealistic for many same-sex couples. Fortunately, these men inherited some money and no expense was too high to stop them from having a baby. Although delicately, the narrator begs the question of why these men chose the expensive surrogate route instead of adopting one of the many orphaned children out there? At this point the gentlemen simply responded the reason was their ego and they each grew up in a traditional, biological family and desired one of their own. If other families are entitled to biological offspring, why not these men? The answer to such a question is not the essentially the focus of this film and the documentary then goes on revealing the struggle these men face on an
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