Family Change Paper

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David Hannum HDFS 202 Spring 2012 Family Change Over the past couple of decades there has been drastic changes in the definition and dynamic of family. The aspects I will talk about will be the change in children and the change in parents today from decades ago. The point I will be showing with these topics will be the vast differences in families from 30-50 years ago to today. Children today act differently with their families than how my parents acted with their parents. In the past, children were considered subordinates of the parents and parents’ needs came first. When my grandfather came home for work my mother and her siblings knew to let him have his time of peace to rest and recharge. If my grandfather wanted to go out to eat Italian food, then the whole family went out to eat Italian. Today, children have a say in how the family spends their time. Parents are more lenient now with their children. For example, my brother and I both have a majority say in what we participate in as a family. My brother will ask my parents to go to a Philadelphia Flyers game and we will go. Another way in which children have changed over time is the number of siblings and how they interact with each other. The number of kids in a single family has changed drastically over time. A perfect example would be my mother who is one of five kids in her family, where in my family unit there is only my brother and I. With my mother’s generation siblings were all closer and “hung out” with each other more often. My brother and I are close, but it is not the same as it used to be. The root cause I think, in the change of children over time stems from how parents have changed over time. Parents today, as previously stated, are more lenient with their children, but that is not the only change. The dynamic between husband and wife has drastically changed. Nowadays it is normal
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