Connie’s Bad Decisions

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S Z Connie’s Bad Decisions In the short-story “Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?” by Joyce Carol Oates, the author writes about a young girl named Connie who is really into herself and only cares about her looks or about how beautiful she is. Connie doesn’t care who she brings down, and does everything possible to impress boys but due to her bad choices she ends up getting herself in trouble with the wrong boy. In Reinout E. Vries, Anita De Vries, Annebel De Hoogh, Jan Feij, article, “More Than the Big Five: Egoism and the HEXACO Model of Personality.” The researchers states, “Egoism is a personality trait that is associated with self-enriching and self-centered behaviors” (635). Throughout the story the character Connie makes many bad decisions by living a double life that have led her egoistical self into high risk situations and even excluding herself from her own family. The author Joyce Oates writes, “Connie knew she was good-looking and for her that meant all” (563). Connie never cared what her mother had to say, it went through one ear and out the other. She considered herself to be better looking than her sister June who she only thought of her as, “…So plain and chunky…” (563). Connie hated the fact that June was always getting praised for everything. When Connie’s mother would reprimand and tell her, “Stop gawking at yourself, who are you? You think you’re so pretty” (Oates 563). Connie would feel as if her mother was jealous of her. In Zlatan Krizan, and Omesh Johar’s article “Envy Divides the Two Faces of Narcissism.” The writers assert, “Envy has long been considered a central feature of narcissistic personalities” (1415). Connie was living a double life where she would act and dress differently around her family and the people she wanted to paint a good image for but when she was out with her friends and they’d go to the mall

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