Breaking Social Norms Research Paper

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Breaking the Norms Things have changed dramatically within the last 50 years, even the last 10 years. The social norms are not what they were, and the behaviors that people exhibit are far from what society used to call 'normal'. I think that we all have our own share of traits that we display on a day to day basis. Personally, when I think of traditional male/female roles, I think of the 'I Love Lucy' days. When the man would be off at work, working all day, while the woman was left at home to tend to the house, cooking, cleaning, taking care of the baby etc. But in modern day society, I see more often than not, the women being the bread winners, while the men are home to tend to the house duties. Or, even one of the most controversial,…show more content…
A person will never find anyone with the exact same life or life problems. People often find themselves portraying roles that aren't necessarily expected of them, for no apparent reason at all. Sometimes that's just who they are. With my own personal family situation, my step dad is at home tending to what is generally the woman's duties. Not by his own choice, but by the way life has put him in that place. Along with many others, people find themselves possessing gender roles that they aren't naturally accustom to them for a vast amount of reasons; being their family expectations, the way the think society tells them to be, or any other reason. He is home tending to the what we normally think is the womanly duties; cleaning, picking up the kids from school, cooking, and many other things. He is the one that gathers all the kids up around the dinner table for supper. This clearly depicts how life can be not what's expected of people, but is still able to work efficiently. Not everything has to be the way it was 60 years…show more content…
Going back to the I Love Lucy days, you never saw Ricky and Lucas, no. You saw Ricky and Lucy. The couple that could never be broken up, the couple who were crazy unlike any other, the couple who were crazy for each other. Now comes the thought of the two people, defying the traditional value of marriage between a man and a woman? I see today a lot of controversy between the two, with Romney's anti gay ads, stating that Obama has forced this upon us. Or on the flip side, where Obama says with pride, that he believes that same sex couples deserve the same rights as heterosexual couples have. With that being said, I believe that this goes back to where people don't want to break from the traditional values that we all know, the traditional thought of a man and a woman being the only ones who can create a successful bond between the two of them. For modern day society this creates quite a bit of questions and concerns. Like the most common one, who's the man, and who's the woman in the relationship? The idea that the 2 gender roles are crucial to one another, and without it, the relationship will fail. Does one exhibit only strong masculine qualities, while the other one is just the passive feminist? I believe that the masculinity and femininity is not clear cut,
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