Why Being Married?

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Getting married is like a fairy tale dream. People develop the idea that finding a partner is one of the most important tasks in life; however, choosing the right person is one of the hardest tasks to accomplish. Although, there are some people that do not think that getting married is necessary to have a success in life. I have my own experience with both sides. Long time ago I thought that staying single for the rest of my life was the best choice for me. I said to myself “Living alone is better than in a bad company.” That idea came from how I met a lot of couples that had sick relationships and I did not want to leave that bad experience. After having all those examples of what married couples are, I decided that I won’t live that risk and that I don’t want to pick someone from nowhere and let him get into my life. The fact that you have to share everything with a “stranger” is risky, so I did not want to live or share my life with someone who is not close to me. Now I realized that my concept about marriage was totally wrong. Because I needed a partner to share my time, my dreams and family; I decided to take that risk. I got into this change of mine when I had to leave my home in my native country and found myself alone in a totally different country with different people. I felt in need of someone that listen to me, that take care of me and all the things that a boyfriend or husband can bring. That thought came to my real life the day I met the man that is my husband. He helped me to take the decision of live a new stage and forget about my concept of marriage. It is great to have someone that takes care of you. I cannot imagine my life alone. I can say that I could not live without a partner and without all the benefits of having a husband that protects me and who believes that I am the most important thing in his
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