Where Are You Going Theme

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In the short story Where are you going? Where have you been? by Joyce Carol, the theme that one must make a sacrifice and become responsible for getting involved in a problem is conveyed through Connie. She is the protagonist of the story, she doesn’t get along with her mother or sister, and she neglects them in order to live another life. Throughout the story Connie works hard to present the appearance of a mature woman who is experienced, this is the problem she gets into pretending to be something she is not. Throughout the story she has two different personas which can be distinguished the childlike innocent one used around the house and family, and the adult like one which was used on evenings out, she attempts to act adult like through her…show more content…
She is slowly entering a state of experience , when Arnold asks Connie does she want a ride she “smirks and let her hair fall loose over one shoulder” this is a sign that she admires the attention. Connie and Arnolds conversation continues and Connie continues to present herself as if she is ready to pursue experience. She attempts to run back into innocence when Arnold starts to describe what they will do. Arnold tells Connie he will “come inside her where it is all secret. Connie replies with “get the hell out of here!” and attempts to run inside and call her family. Arnold somehow takes control of her and forces her to enter his car. They then rode off into a “land that Connie had never seen before and did not recognize except to know she was going to it”. She has just ridden off into the land of experience this is why she does not recognize it. She conveys towards the theme that one must make a sacrifice and become responsible for getting involved in a problem. Throughout the story she attempts to make herself appear as if she has already entered experience while in reality she is still innocent this is the problem she gets involved in. And at the end of the story she must make the sacrifice of her
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