Stigmatization Of Wheel Chairs

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The Emic Perspective Our society stigmatizes anyone that doesn’t fit in the neat package of “normal”. People from different cultures, practicing different religions, and are from different races have all been targeted relentlessly, but why the physically handicapped? Granted the handicapped in wheelchairs just seem to be so obtrusive. Why do normal people get so uncomfortable around them? Perhaps it’s because we’re unfamiliar with the situation and we aren’t aware how to handle it. However, many people don’t think about how it looks from the handicapped person’s point of view. “The person who smiles and jokes while in obvious physical pain is honored by all” (Murphy p. 20). Murphy is saying, as long as you make it comfortable for the person who isn’t handicapped you will be accepted by society more easily than someone who expresses their agonies. You cannot express your true feelings because it is uncomfortable and rude from the Normal’s standpoint. Goffman would consider this humor a type of passing. Because the normal person would only be able to show some level of sympathy, but they can never reach empathy. The lack of empathy makes the handicapped feel isolated as if there is no way to relate and try to become as normal as possible through jokes. In all four stories jokes were used to relieve an awkward moment; Murphy with his colleges, Ernie with family and friends, Galen with his doctors, and Vicki with her neighbors when she needed assistance. These people did not want to be seen as abominations because of their physical deformity. Unfortunate for them, none could pass. However, covering seemed more sensible. Murphy attempted to in the beginning of the book using a cane, then a walker, and finally giving into the wheelchair. Regardless of his attempts, they were all obviously disabled and therefore discredited. Discretization also leads to alienation

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