Sex Without Love

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Sex without love by Sharon olds This poem Sex without love by Sharon olds describes the feelings of dislike by the author towards people who have sex without having a personal attachment. The author starts off by asking ‘how do they do it? The ones who make love without love? Readers experience at first this question which opens the audience to think on something that for some people is not a issue at all , the author separates herself and labels those people as” they, giving the reader the understanding that she doesn’t believe in sex without love. The second lines “Beautiful as dancers,/gliding over each other like ice-skaters/over the ice,” show through her choice of words how she does not see sex without love as something unclean, but rather as a show between two people, each performing for the other. Dancing and ice skating are both beautiful arts which are fully accepted in society, so in comparing sex without love to these arts, Olds is conveying to readers that she doesn’t care what they think of what the “ice-skaters” are doing and that they are performing something beautiful in cold grounds( no feelings). All that seems to matter is their personal happiness of the moment. However, Olds does seem to be able to see how that sex without love really is. She also describes the lovers “faces red as steak’ red representing the color of sensuality the desire of burning fire. I think is clever how she uses the metaphor of steak to characterize the animal inside of one. We are carnal beings; we are made of meat, so we act on our flesh desires. She uses food and wine to convey the pleasure meaning to the poem of satisfying a hunger. Old also shares her spiritual view of sex in lines (13#-17). She adds how sex and God are entwined. ‘These are the true religions, the priest, the pros, the one who will not accept a false Messiah, love the priest instead of
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