Instead, he spends his time how he chooses and will not let the world have an impact on what he does with his time. Ha Jin is not wasting his time by spending time with the person or people he loves. In actuality, Ha Jin's message is that people should be making the best use of their time as they see it. Furthermore, the memories that a person makes with the people that mean the most to him/her do not need to be written down. Those memories may last forever and may become some of the happiest components of
Yet, it always easy to say but hard to do it. Sometimes, my thinking just comes out of nowhere and I do not even realized it. I do try to control my thinking when it starts heading to the bad direction. Most of the time when I think something is going to be bad or not the way I plan it, it ends up bad because I already think about it. On the other hand, if I do not think about it or tell myself that it is going to be fine, it usually nothing happens.
You need to be a good listener, patient and be prepared to put in the effort as it can sometimes be very frustrating especially if there are communication difficulties. You need to be prepared to support them on activities of their choice and have fun with them. Regular keyworker sessions should be carried out with the individual on every aspect of there life including things that they may be finding difficult. It is important that the individual is aware that you are a member of staff who is there to support them, you need to be careful not to over step the mark. Never agree to keep secrets, never buy the individual presents and do not see the individual in your own personal time.
It does not say or express anything!” But fortunately for individuals who have mastered the art of silence that is not the case. Although we live in a culture that values sharing every thought and feeling, acknowledging silence between our verbal exchanges allows for a deeper insight into the significance of what we learn from others and
The down side of being a pragmatist is that you can’t stand change. Pragmatists definitely are not unnecessary risk takers; therefore I rarely ever fail in life either. Pragmatists go along to get along, which can substantially limit the negative aspects of conflict, but that can be tiring after awhile. I tend to be content with life which is a good thing really. As a pragmatist, I am also a realist; therefore I can sometime frustrate the dreamers of the
The individual's feelings and preferences are not considered. Having people make informed choices and emphasising freedom of choice helps to reduce abuse. Having a choice over even a small part of your care and life means you have control and you’re more independent. People need to know the pros and cons of all the options to decide for themselves and which one suits them best. No individual will choose something which could harm them.
As such there is no one-way of approach in assisting clients, as far as I can see there are no overriding theories, which influence my intervention and practice since I have not been aware of them. This exercise is therefore retroactive as far as I am concerned and what I have to do is look at my practice and then identify elements of theories that I recognise, in what I have been delivering. When I first see clients I try to make them comfortable to enable me to develop some level of rapport with them so that they the can express what their expectations regarding the meeting and answer questions that are somewhat personal. I try to keep things on a positive level and respect client’s views and feelings showing empathy but at the same time clarifying their expectations. In this respect I believe that I am taking a person centred approach.
As a Trainer I advise my learners that I have a legal obligation to ensure that any personal information remains confidential and that it will only be shared with others on a need to know basis or with their permission if additional support is required i.e. when a learner has accomplished his qualification and it needs to be verified externally or if a learner needs more support from occupational therapy or social services. I also explain if photographs are required for the learner’s portfolio that I will need their written
At the start of the course, a teacher has to establish the ground rules and ensure that it is clearly understood by learners. It is important that rules are clear and unambiguous. Ground rules can be reviewed during the course of study. Jo Budden also stated “In the middle of the course, it is never too late to refresh students’ memories of the ground rules”. The following are some ways to establishing ground rules: The school would have its rules, and this needs to be established at the start of the course and must be clearly communicated verbally or in writing to ensure that learners understand it so as to ensure compliance.
I tell you everything that's really nothing, nothing of what's crying within me. so when I'm going through my routine, don't be fooled by what I'm saying. please listen carefully and try to hear what I'm not saying; what I'd like to be able to say; what, for survival, I need to say but I can't say. I dislike the hidings. honestly I do.