Lies: Do They Cause More Harm Than Good?

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Lies: Do They Cause More Harm Than Good? How many people are hurt because of one simple lie? In the essay “The Ways We Lie,” Stephanie Ericsson defines the different types of lying and gives examples of experiences where these types of lies were executed. Ericsson uses a compelling quote by George Bernard Shaw in her essay that states: “The liar’s punishment [...] is that he cannot believe anyone else” (182). The central theme in “The Ways We Lie” is that when liars lie, those liars lose because they can never be sure if the people they are talking to are not also lying to them. Out-and-out lies are the most detectable of all of the many ways to lie. “At least when this sort of lie is told it can be easily confronted. As the person that is lied to, I know where I stand. The bald-faced lie doesn’t toy with my perceptions- it argues with them” (Ericsson 180). There is no doubt, no question in the person being lied to’s mind of the credibility of the statement. A person being lied to can always tell when an out-and-out lie is told. That person can then either accept that they were lied to, pretending like it never happened or confront the liar, causing embarrassment and fitting consequences for the liar. The white lie is probably the most common, and possibly the most dangerous of all lies. Ericsson writes: The white lie assumes that the truth will cause more damage than a simple, harmless untruth. Telling a friend that he looks great when he looks like hell can be based on a decision that the friend needs a compliment more than a frank opinion. But, in effect, it is the liar deciding what is best for the lied to (175). By telling the man that he looks great, the liar falsely boosts his confidence. Then, based on the liar’s false compliment, the man approaches a prospective future partner,

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