Five Wishes Essay

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Misty L. Bruce “Five Wishes” Liberty University-Psych 210 Five Wishes The relationships that I have with my husband and our children are most definitely at the center of my world. I cannot bear the thought of leaving them unprepared for my passing. Spiritually, I am ready whenever the Lord may call on me to meet Him in Heaven. As Christians we should be. We need to be. I would say the same goes for our earthly families. With human relations comes responsibility, and the responsible person will make certain that they’ve help to address concerns, personal wishes, and specific details surrounding their healthcare wishes or death. Creating a good outline and starting point for this task can be quite daunting, and many have turned to experts for advice. Founded in 1997, Aging with Dignity developed the Five Wishes doctrine (Aging With Dignity, 2014). This project serves to ask questions that will not only spark conversation, but will facilitate the planning and preparation process, in the event of a person’s untimely illness or death. Utilizing their worksheet, to answer five little questions will put all parties concerned at ease, and take an enormous weight off of the appointed proxy. The first question deals with: “Who you want to make health care decisions for you when you can't make them” (Aging With Dignity, 2014). If I were unable to make decisions regarding my healthcare then I would most definitely choose my husband to step in convey my wishes. We have spent years sharing our ideas, goals, triumphs, and failures; I cannot imagine him having anything but my wishes and best interest at heart. If by some chance my husband is unavailable to make these choices then the responsibility would fall to my oldest son. If he is not present then my next child in chronological order will bear the task. I thought the issues highlighted in this question were important.

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