Cause and Effect of an ISFJ

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Cause and Effects of an ISFJ Upon taking the Meyers-Briggs personality type indicator assessment test, I found out that I am classified as an ISFJ. This is interpreted as Introvert, Sensing, Feeling, and Judging. An Introvert is always thinking about what we want to say or do, and is always aware of how we feel (BSM Consulting). I realized after doing some soul searching that so much of who I am stems from my parents, genetically and by the way that they raised me. I am now able to understand why I make the choices that affect my life, such as relationships and the career that I am pursuing. My personality type, ISFJ, also dictates every decision that I make regarding my children’s lives. Being an introvert means that I appreciate my own space and I need time to regroup after being in groups of people. According to the Meyers-Briggs test, “Introverts often prefer solitary activities or spending time with one or two others with whom they feel an affinity, and they often have a calming effect on those around them” (MBTI). All of the women on my mother’s side of the family exhibit this same trait, so it’s no wonder that I exhibit it as well. Personal space has always been important, especially to my Mom and my Aunt. I can remember my mother would go into her room sometimes and lock the door, and I used to feel sad when she did that because I just thought she didn’t want to spend time with me. As I’ve grown older, I realize now that she was only seeking time for herself, and that’s so hard to get when you are a parent. I find myself locking my door quite often, but I sat my children down and explained to them the reason why I feel the need to do so. Introverts can be difficult to get to know, or to get close to because this requires a tremendous amount of energy for an introvert (Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen). Sometimes I wonder if this is the reason why the women in my

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