Losing Sense Of Self

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Personality Psychology Losing the sense of self... “I realized that I was no longer the person I used to be. But could that be true? Where had that person gone? And who was I now?” (Schell, 1999). This person is surely confused, or losing the sense of self. Sense of identity or sense of self, forms gradually as a person grow up. It is the self that makes each individual unique. Both our experiences and social influences from thoughts and actions have a great effect on each person’s behavior, how the person defines or think about his or her self, and whether the person is accepted or rejected in the society. The outcome or the formation of each person’s sense of self depends on how each person interprets the experiences, how the society responds, and the decision of who each person would like to become. Unfortunately, once a self is formed, it can possibly be lost or forgotten due to the idea about how the sense of self in each person loses that several theorists have come up with. Jung, Rogers, and Winnicott are the three of the most famous theorists who came up with the theories about losing the sense of self. The first theorist, Carl Jung came up with the idea that total personality, known and unknown includes several archetypes. The self includes the persona and shadow. This world is such an artificial, materialistic, and superficial world. The persona is like the mask that each person chooses to wear to represent in the society and what he or she expects others to view him or her as. Of course, there is a reason for putting these masks on, which the reason is to connect to the world. Sometimes we must pretend to be who the society expects us to be, no matter if our personality isn’t. Since this world is such a materialistic, artificial and superficial world, as time goes by longer and longer depends how frequent and exaggerated the persona can
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