Breakdown of Relationships There are theories of relationship dissolution and these give possible reasons as to why couples break up. Duck (1999) suggested that relationship breakdown is due to three risk factors, this includes; lack of skills, lack of stimulation and maintenance difficulties. Lack of skills is when some people have poor communication skills, so they have poor quality conversations and do not indicate interest very well. Duck (1991) argued the lack of social skills can be seen as a disinterest and lack of effort to maintain the relationship, so it breaks down. Lack of stimulation; the social exchange theory suggests that people look for rewards in a relationship of which is ‘stimulation’.
Why do women return to their cheating partners? Many people, women in particular return to their partners who would constantly cheat on them and show disrespect their relationship. From an outsider’s point of view, it is the most irrational decision a woman would make, but why would these people come back again to their partners who clearly disrespected their bond and would most likely do it again? Reasons may vary from total love and devotion or the hope that the cheater will change, but the most crucial is monophobia, the fear of being alone. Firstly, when someone is totally devoted to their love interest it may be hard to turn a conscious eye to their imperfections and faults.
In the Pursuit of Perfect by Tal Ben-Shahar, he sheds some light into the possibility of obtaining a happy life even with the struggles and challenges that may come our way. It is how we tackle these obstacles and avoid being a perfectionist and adopting an Optimalistic approach. Tal Ben-Shahar provides a step-by-step process to conquer the fear of failure and by taking these tools we learn and apply them to our love life and our lives in general. Failure is a word that most of us don’t want to hear or even experience. We do everything we can to steer away from failing by putting a ton of pressure on ourselves, creating intense anxiety and ultimately being unhappy.
Men and women are both to blame for failed marriages for many reasons. Some of the reasons are due to career priorities, miscommunication, financial concerns, infertility, emotional distress, or cultural differences. One of the strongest reasons why many marriages fail is because of women who are career driven. There are career women who can break a marriage or make a marriage. The number one reason a couple face a divorce is that career women are independent decision makers, and they prioritize career to chase their dreams rather than focusing exclusively on family.
That's why friends are there for you. If you keep things private to yourself, people around you wont understand what is happening with you, which you end up hurting you and make another pile of stress. The most common examples are relationships. When your relationship isn't going so great and you keep it to yourself, seeing your friends or families and they ask you how you are you doing. You get more stressed and hurt because you're keeping it private.
The relationship most people seem to forget about that can sometimes consume a person’s life unknowingly is the relationship with an archenemy. Growing up, one may not always see eye to eye with another. Sometimes in life, one will be despised by another unexplainably. Between the two enemies is the rare form of a relationship each can only experience themselves. Enemies are there to tear someone down.
The negative effect of having an attitude would probably be shutting down, not wanting to accomplish anything that needs to be done. Having a negative attitude can result into possibly losing friends everyone not wanting anything to do with you but then again there are various results into having a negative attitude but in the end it doesn’t get you anywhere. Positive attitude can actually take you places it gives you motivation and it also gives you opportunities to do better things in the
There is proof that divorced couples turn out to be more vulnerable to fall into depression because of a sense of failure and purposelessness. Thirdly, people claim that once divorced, they will better and extend their social involvement so as to compensate for the loss of their spouses. Nevertheless, divorce brings major changes in the social lives of the adults, such as having no time for social interaction. Having to handle everything on their own, parents find it difficult to cope
The media scrutinizes against females that do not meet their standards, and try's to sell us the idea that happiness is found in being beautiful in their standards. This causes women to become overwhelmed with vanity, which causes them to follow the Medias unrealistic approach of true beauty. These goals include, staying thin, having certain body features, and need to stay young. This results in women seeking harmful diets, expensive cosmetic surgery, and spending excessive amounts on beauty products, all in order for them to stay beautiful. "Although media boasts a sparkling image of what every girl should look like, the simple fact is that most of us just don't.
How to Respect Boundaries in Any Relationship How to Respect Boundaries in Any Relationship Boundaries in any relationship can be very hard to respect when the other person does not respect yours. This can be between a boyfriend and girlfriend, father and son, brother and sister or even a teacher and student. I hope this gives you a new outlook on how respecting boundaries can affect any relationship. Healthy boundaries can strengthen any relationship. The problem with people not knowing how to respect boundaries can affect more than one person.