People may be scared to do something different because they don't know what the outcome will be; they are scared to take a chance or a risk. People may resist change because of lack of control or reward. My husband is the kind of person who is resistant to change because of lack of control. He likes to have control over things in his life and if something happens out of his control he has a hard time handling it at first. If there is a lack of reward then people may resist.
A submissive person usually fears upsetting others because they do not wish to hurt their feelings or fear them. Submissive people also usually assume that they are to blame for things, even if they are not. They also accept culpability when singled out by others. Avoidance Behaviour Avoidance behaviour is when a person distracts themselves from an activity or task to which an unpleasant emotion is attached to. Usually this emotion is fear.
Once the seed of doubt is planted and a person is insecure it can lead to an emotional withdraw from one partner to the other. In short being dishonest can lead to pain and it could create a gap. Once that gap is there it is hard to come back from therefore causing an individual to question their relationship or ending it. Therefore with dishonesty being one reason a person would break up with their partner it would be advised to avoid it. Now knowing that dishonesty should be avoided.
I take her comments to heart as a personal attack that I’m either not feeding them enough or that I’m spoiling them too much. I feel it has a lot to do with my low self esteem on my part when it comes to being a parent or on any other topic that I feel insecure about. For others it can be that they are generally defensive all of the time and perceive negative judgments in anything said to them instead of on separate issues. Responding defensively happens when you have a bad perception of the person’s message; you perceived the person doesn’t like/ respect/ trust you and expresses it in their communication. (4) The downfall of responding defensively all of the time though may discourage others from being so honest with their remarks.
By nature people are afraid of the unknown, and when something changes people assume the worst even with just an appearance. Just like in the story people don’t go directly to the person to ask them why, but just to sneer and make rumors. Where do we learn not to directly approach a person if something is odd about them? We all do it, even I do it. Even if its family we don’t ask, just assume.
People are often afraid of failure, and when someone believes that you can not do something, it motivates you to not fail, using the fear as fuel for success. Another example is people who are afraid of public speaking. When one is afraid of speaking in front of others, they often use the fear as a motivation to make their speech good, so that they don’t have to worry about having a bad speech as well as speaking in front of others. A comfort zone for people afraid of public speaking or performing would be picturing the crowd in their underwear. Many people are also afraid of loneliness.
Those with paranoid personality disorder want to be invisible because it will help them with their social avoidance. Although these people can hold down employment it doesn’t mean they have personal relationships with those they work with on the job. Individuals can marry and have children creating their own families. However, their sexual relationships are really of no interest to them. These individuals can speak rather slowly as if they are lethargic.
Some parents ignore to teach their children when they were young. It cause many children don’t care their behavior and they will get the wrong worldview. I like this book because that is a good advice for children and parents, it can help parents teach their children keep a good behavior when they were young. How to listening to the other people, that is a serious problem for children, especially for parents. Now, more and more children don’t like to listen to the other people.
Some also cut themselves, drink or abuse drugs to cope. But many are adept at hiding their depression, he says. “From the outside, they may look popular and fabulous, but deep down, they may feel so bad about themselves.” Ho’s young patients don’t use the word “depression,” he says. “But they will say that they feel bad all the time and don’t see the point in doing anything. Or some of them feel that they are a disappointment to their parents, so they don’t actually feel depressed, but
. “It’s important to choose your friends carefully”.. Lots of people may not know how important that saying may actually be and some people take it for granted. A true friend is someone that one can trust and rely on. I believe that it is very important to choose your friends carefully because sometimes you may need to rely on them to help you when you’re in a time of need. Another important reason to choose carefully is to avoid someone becoming friends with you because they just want to use you into helping themselves and to their own benefits.