Personal Sociological Perspective

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What was what is and what will be What was what is and what will be is not easy to explain. I am going to reflect on the experiences that helped to shape and mold me. Several experiences will be compared using adult theories. Where I grew up and influences of family and my environment and nurturing from important people has helped me to make the good choices. I will have shared the story of my life; what was what is and what will be. I grew up in Peshastin, Washington. I estimate the population at 300. Peshastin was small and beautiful. The men logged, farmed and worked as Sawyers. The women worked at the fruit warehouse, taught school, or stayed home. There was not a lot to do in Peshastin. Located too far from bigger cities my friends…show more content…
My step Aunt had two kids. Both kids were girls and I loved them. I started babysitting for her after school and on weekends; anything to get me away from my house. She was fun. She took us everywhere. We floated the river, had BBQ's, and went to drive-in movies. She managed a local steak and seafood restaurant. She taught me how to manage the money I was making from her babysitting. She helped me get my first bank account so I had a place to put my babysitting money. She let me drive her car and helped me get my license. I love her. She is a stable person in my life; Always there whether good or bad and never judgmental. She taught me to value myself. She knew my story and loved…show more content…
I was not able to see a middle ground and not able to relate to a lot people. What I thought was right and that was the only way. It was all about me. "In absolutist thinking a person demands that his or her values, goals and wants are achieved or satisfied. Such demands preclude debate about their appropriateness or legitimacy; they are simply asserted as unchallengeable facts" (Ostell, 1992). The attitude I was showing was believed to be rude and mean. Instead of being a rude and disrespectful as a person, Mr. Douglas began teaching me that I was worth something. He showed me through trust and faith that I could work toward being a good person and that I could change who I was. It was a choice. He offered me the Captains position on the team but only if I set goals in school, and personally, to achieve better. I had to maintain an eighty percent average. I was not allowed to miss even one day of school unless I was dying. He picked me up in the morning and dropped me off after games. I could stay late at school on days he did and was always welcome at his home with his family. I stopped drinking for good at this point. I stopped partying. I set goals for my own curfew and with my Aunt, Rose and Mr. Douglas's help I graduated as one of success stories of my

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