I played sports and received letters from other colleges. So I felt good about that until me and my mother had out disagreements on where I wanted to go to school at. So I listen and instead stayed home to go a local technical institute. So once I got going with school things were going good until my job played a major role into school and also my mother was getting ill. So
I brought them back with me because they were moving back to the Middletown area because my kid’s mother was not going to be able to leave the state when she got out jail. My kid’s mother moved back in the beginning of December 2012 when her mom got out of jail. They were suppose be getting a house but that did not happen. Her mom was able to transfer her probation to Michigan. Her mom left close to the end of January.
Everything changed from then on, name, birthdays and most of all the identity that would get me lost in this world. The character of the name shows who you are. I was shy, quiet and scared of life and people. I needed someone who would love me and protect me during my child hood years. The reason that my adoptive family that gave me a new name, was that it was a new begging of my life, a new fresh start, and looking back I would understand what they wanted me to have that I didn’t have as a child.
Then protective feeling grew stronger with each passing weeks. Desire and need to understand the world around me in order to protect my baby spread out in to every level of my life. I had concerns that never existed before in my mind. I learned to put somebody else needs as a priority. Now I spend my previous personal time to bonding, playing, attention giving to him, making sure that he has not only my love and worship, but all nessasary material things in life perior to me.
For now I flashback on the things that have brought me this far in my endless journey. So many people have influenced my life in different ways. From the crazy friends that I have grown up with and now consider family to the immature boys who I thought I loved, but broke my heart, they all will have an everlasting influence on my life. In elementary school, I met Chelsea Phillips. She was my first best friend; I was so upset when she had to move.
They also seemed to have lost much of the value system that most of us took for granted growing up. By examining the roles of children in the past, we may be able to trace the source of the problems that we are having with today's troubled youth. In olden days, children were treated as small adults and given many of the same responsibilities that were shouldered by their parents. Youngsters worked side by side with their parents in the fields as soon as they could walk. Children serving as soldiers were not uncommon in some countries.
Walking off the bus nervous and excited about what was to come. Real sports, challenging classes and the different teachers i was going to have. All my classes were advanced placement and the people around me were not familiar faces since all incoming sixth graders came from different elementary's in the area. I felt alone for the very first time in my life. I tried to keep focus but my solitude was starting to become unbearable.
Tori Cole Chrysta Wilson Eng 097 9 April 2012 Starting Over Becoming a wife and starting a family at a young age, I was setting myself up for failure. Getting married at the age of sixteen changed my life because I was young and immature. Before I got married I was on my way to fulfilling my dreams of going to college on a rodeo scholarship. When I made the choice of getting married I was pregnant and I ignored the advice from my parents to get an abortion and continue with life before the pregnancy. I refused their advice and got married and kept my pregnancy.
In the end, being able to face my fears head on, I was able to be alone with just my children and I in our own place. It has forced me to be successful in making my own decisions and become confident in them. My success is that I can go to school now, work a part-time job, have help at home with our children and the household duties. It may not seem like much to most but to me overcoming the small fears have led me to believe that I can overcome any obstacle that comes our way, together, as a team. Yes, I went through a difficult divorce at a hard time in life.
I had got suspend almost the whole year. I stay talking backing to the teachers and did not care what they told me. I stayed in the 8th grade principle office. Coming to Murrah has changed me, I new that I could not come here and act a fool in high school. I know I can get out of control sometimes but I can do better then what I be doing.