The Importance Of An Outsider

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James Baker Basic English Den 1000-01 Mr.Lutomski “Outsider” There are many different times in life a person can feel like an outsider. Everyone eventually goes through this feeling one way or another. I have felt like an outsider numerous times on plenty of different occasions. A specific occasion is when I am with my family and everyone has their kids there at the event, except for mines. In these events I kind of distance myself because I feel I am alone. My kids reside in Saginaw Michigan with their mother. The distance between us has made them miss many family events we have had over the past two years. One specific event I really wanted my kids to…show more content…
I had to keep a positive mind set as best I could. I would feel sad and sometimes depressed when I knew my family was going to get together for an event. My mom always did the best she could to help me cope with this situation. She was always there for me. She kept me in a positive mind. I decided to go Michigan to visit them in September 2012, after my kid’s mother mom was caught. I did not want to miss my daughter’s birthday again either. I stayed in Michigan for a month and brought my kid’s back with me. I brought them back with me because they were moving back to the Middletown area because my kid’s mother was not going to be able to leave the state when she got out jail. My kid’s mother moved back in the beginning of December 2012 when her mom got out of jail. They were suppose be getting a house but that did not happen. Her mom was able to transfer her probation to Michigan. Her mom left close to the end of January. I told my kid’s mother that I did not want her going back there with my kids. Just a few weeks before my sons second birthday my kid’s mother told me they were going to her little cousins birthday party that weekend and I was suppose too have the kid’s that weekend. I did not here from her the entire weekend. She called me 5 days later saying they were back in Michigan. Two straight years in a row she has made me miss my son’s…show more content…
There is probably no greater situation than me not seeing my kids often. I try to stay positive as best I can at all time’s. I am striving to further my education and follow my set goals I have for myself and my children. One day I will be able to have my children back and be able to be 100% in their lives. With my family’s help and patience I will succeed in doing so. I can’t wait until this day. My kids will no longer miss any family events and I will be able to raise my kids and show them how to work hard and to never give up on anything, no matter how hard things
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