Belonging in individuals occur when they feel connected with peoples and places. Sometime, individual connection with the people and places, can naturally occur and is not challenging to build meaning connection with peoples and places, this concept was further explored in film Rabbit proof fences directed by Phillip Noyce and it was also explored in the song My Island home by Christian Anu. In contrast to that, Due to some barriers and cultural differences, sometimes it is difficulties and challenging for some individual to develop meaningful connection with people, This ideas was further explored in the memoir Unpolished Gem by Alice Pung. At the begging of Rabbit proof fence Noyce has emphasises that, individual are naturally connected with their own natives habitat and with their own family. ,At the begging of films , with the tracking shot of vast desert landscape, noyce has uses molly voiceover speaking on her native language saying “ we were desert people then, walking all overs our lands”.
Our interests, motivation and happiness are tied to the feeling that we belong to a greater community that may share common interests and aspirations. Isolation on the other hand can cause loneliness and a low social status which can harm a person's subjective sense of well-being, as well as his or her intellectual achievement and health. Belonging gives us connections to other people or things and we can gain other certain feelings with it such as security and happiness. Peter Skrzynecki’s poems reflect this sense of belonging through many different ways and in many different contexts such as family, school and belonging to the land, but also have some disconnection with his family. In his poems, we still hear reference to Polish foods, language, connections and disconnections that exist.
K’ung Shang-Jen introduces the simple, yet thought provoking, fan as a symbol of how the hero and heroine should live their lives. Both Hou and the Fragrant Princess reject living above their means and maintain the belief that living virtuously will lead to their desired fate. Accordingly, the two experience authentic happiness and dismiss the temptations of external encounters that test the strength of their virtue. One reoccurring burden that the two face is Juan, in his attempt to win the Fragrant Princess’s affection. Reacting to Juan’s pretentious efforts, the Fragrant says that she would rather stay true to the
“That is the secret of happiness and virtue-liking what you’ve got to do. All conditioning aims at that: making people like their inescapable social destiny” (22). Just like the Director of Hatcheries says, happiness is liking what they do, and if they prefer it to all else they therefore won’t want anything unattainable, because they already have what they’ve been conditioned to want. Another way the World State ensures stability is throughout the promotion of promiscuous sex. “Every one belongs to every one else” (40).
Unlike the European counter part, the Quiceañera has more depth than ensuring the continuation of the noble bloodlines and securing family fortunes. No, the Quinceañera celebration is a time of affirming of faith, family traditions, good morals, and preparedness to take on adult roles within the family as well as recognition of her sexual maturity. In the Quinceañera celebration, unlike the debutante party, solely is a time of celebrating the mile stone of a young lady into adulthood and is not a way of presenting her as eligible for marriage where in deals are sealed with a “good” marital
Yet we see media encouraging the notion that you must be beautiful not smart to find a significant other. Equally, we see media encouraging that to be attractive to females you must have be masculine, strong, and handsome. Feminism currently works to defeat these standards put upon males and females by society. A beautiful reference Quindlen made to the shifting feminist agenda is that of expectations. As females, we are now able to legally do everything a male can do, yet now we are expected to do it even better.
Her husband's or father's social standing determined the degree of respect she commanded. Chivalry and Courtly Love: Ideal but Unreal Chivalry: a system of ideals and social codes governing the behavior of knights and gentlewomen Adoring a particular lady was seen as a means of self-improvement. Courtly love: in its ideal form, nonsexual The lady always remained pure and out of reach. The Rise of Romance Chivalry brought about an idealized attitude toward women, but it did little to improve their actual position. Chivalry did give rise to a new form of literature, the romance.
We have the ability to improve the quality of life for all the people around us, so we should use it while we can. Because we have the right to freedom of speech, we are able to be the catalysts for a positive change. In fact, we must always be the first to move. Playing safe and putting a picture that too many people are in agreement is not playing smart, it’s depriving one of practicing debating skills and analytical skills. It’s also not a good way to motivate one’s followers to follow their example, either.
Belonging is a way of having acceptance, security and fulfilment whether it’s belonging to a group of friends, family, race and culture. Experiences we encounter in life shape our identity in various, throughout all stages of our life. Through this, we develop a sense of identity as a result of going through the experience, which is what makes us different from one another. Experiences we encounter make us who we are, and make us a unique individual. These experiences may also present us with a sense of belonging, whether this is by the means of feeling acceptance or fulfilment.
20-21). He is scared of her matrimony “bring her a house “(L. 73) he wants her to get married. He is not scared of her being healthy a “great gloom” is talking about her intellect and the choices she needs to make for her own good and future get married be beautiful but not to a certain extent to where that is all you have going for yourself have the surrounding people see you more then just a beautiful person (L. 8). He wants her to be smart and have a happy life. The health was the last thing for him to ask for he didn’t overlook it he just didn’t associate it with “great gloom” (L. 8).