The Moment I Felt Grown Up

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I take growing up in this sense which I can learn from an experience and things within the experience can help me grow. One of my high school teachers once said: ’There is no need to compare yourself to others, a better way is compare with yourself, just be the best you can be’. These words always haunted me for a long time. At my first year of my high school, I got competitive, I always compare with my classmates in grades and other some ways. It always exhausted me at that time and I realized all this was kind of self-disturb. So I decided to throw the garbage out of my mind. What my teacher said sounded a helpful advice. However, I could not seek a reason to convince myself for these words and thus could not get rid of it completely. Someone may think in this way, behind an able man there is always another able man, but I don’t like this ‘losing heart’ saying. One day, I happened to get the key when I was reading a children’s story ‘The boy’s toy gun’ in this book. It tells a boy get a toy gun as a gift. The next day the boy takes the gun to the school. Every other boy wants to play this nice toy. It’s just toy-owner’s need. The owner playing the toy by himself to enjoy the envy comes from the others. After school, when he playing in his home he gets bored, no one attracted by him. When I read this, it just like my case, maybe it is what I need. I released. Sometimes, the purpose of comparing with others is nothing but to enjoy the superiority and attention. Thinking about that, how big a deal the number of ‘red flowers’ you have got. ’There is no need to compare yourself to others, a better way is compare with yourself, just be the best you can be’. It means putting your heart into something is not a show for others to see, just to surpass yourself. You just need to log YOUR successes to make them more
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